are there nurses who ACTUALLY care ?

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After a couple of months of volunteer time in the ER, I declined a near 6-figure promotion (another field) to reenter the classroom. I spent my weekends there instead of getting plastered at bars or clubs. Corporate America's unethical work culture burnt me out. I picked up 3000 miles ago, acquired a couple of loans, and here I am. A Nursing Student in my first semester.

I had the worse experience in class. We had a group presentation due and my group members voted to cut MY presentation short (an hour before the presentation), in fear of breaching the time limit (for the sake of their OWN grade). My minutes basically went to seconds of senseless broken English.

déjà vu Corporate America? I spoke to my professor afterwards and was told not to sweat it.

During orientation, the presenters/faculty emphasized a "comradery" only nurses encompass that no other profession/professional possess.

I understand we are students, but people never (hardly) change. I have dealt with this state of mind before; in and out of the hospital. 1 made me take a wheelchair from an elderly lady. Maybe I am comparing apples to oranges... But I find it hard to believe one can hang a classmate out to dry (under my circumstances) and expect to provide quality care. At the moment, I feel I am mistake in my belief that nurses have a genuine interest in people and their well being.

SIDE NOTES:

Their "reason" to shorten my segment was "you have no idea what you are presenting."

I am in a cohort of 4.0 students that "know everything" so I am the idiot. I find it ironic (a bit funny, actually), they delegate (the most difficult topics) actual medicine/medical practice to me, even though I come off as a person who does the minimum to pass.

I have a 90%, at the moment.

Specializes in PDN; Burn; Phone triage.

I would have kept the six figure promotion.

i guess i was under the misconception (whe i wrote this) 1 needs to actually "care" about the patients to provide "quality" care.

As in any profession, camaraderie requires everyone in the team to work for the betterment of the team. Are you upset that your presentation was cut because you wanted to be an individual and make a statement or because cutting you would harm the overall teams objective, which is to be successful in school?

Sounds like you might have problems with working in a team...

BTW, 90% is not a satisfactory grade. In my school that is a B and anything less than an A is unacceptable. Just FYI.

In what way does "caring about the patients" relate to you not getting a longer time to speak in a classroom?

So your classmates are "bad" and "uncaring" because their main concern re: the presentation was their grade? What on earth would you have them do? Take a lower mark on the project to be "nice" to you? They didn't get their 4.0's by being stupid.... Don't you want a high grade, too??

BTW, 90% is not a satisfactory grade. In my school that is a B and anything less than an A is unacceptable. Just FYI.
What are you saying? A student with a 90% grade would be dropped from the program or something? That's pretty harsh.

Asystole RN wow... what school is this? RN, BSN, MSN? link to the program? and what is the scale like here? i will be honest, i would probably not succeed here.

and to answer your question... like i have stated before: my time was cut short because "during a presentation, if you do not speak, you did not present." sorry if that was unclear to you. there was a time limit... everybody else wanted to be an individual. in my opinion, my portion was short. apparently, it had to be shortened a bit more. i did not even get to speak for a an entire minute considering the information i needed to present.

beeker i tried to use an analogy here. what they did to me and what they may do to their patient. hence, the incident with me "having to take a wheelchair"

BrandonLPN : i had a 4.0 before entering the program... what makes you assume what i was going to present be detrimental to our grade?

from what i am reading, some people find it hard to believe another person would do this for the reason(s) i am posting. "heck with him... all about me." inconsiderate, selfish, etc... people do not exist in your world? this makes me assume the people bashing me in this thread must have been spoiled children / catered to all their lives... but i know better than to think that.

maybe i need to turn a new leaf and be the other person. it is a "dog eat dog" world. on the other hand, i know there is tiny bit of clarity in what i am writing because a few posters know what i am speaking of.

You said "all they care about is their grade" regarding the project. What else should they care about?

Take a lower mark on the project to be "nice" to you? They didn't get their 4.0's by being stupid....

i reiterate... i had a 4.0 before entering the program... what makes you assume what i was going to present be detrimental to our grade?

They cut your part because it put them over the time limit. In your own words you said they did it to protect their own grade. You said it as if it were a bad thing, as if their grade shouldn't have been their first concern. Of course it should be. Now, maybe they could have cut

something else, I don't know. I wasn't there. But it doesn't sound personal. Your bit put it over the top, so it was cut. If you got a good grade too, who cares?

They cut your part because it put them over the time limit. In your own words you said they did it to protect their own grade. You said it as if it were a bad thing, as if their grade shouldn't have been their first concern. Of course it should be. Now, maybe they could have cut

something else, I don't know. I wasn't there. But it doesn't sound personal. Your bit put it over the top, so it was cut. If you got a good grade too, who cares?

a group of 6 with a maximum of 21 minutes. the other 5 people spoke for 4 minutes and i got 1 minute, if not less. it was the principle... and it screwed up all i prepared for. i did not have enough time to readjust, since we role played 30 mins. before class. we never practiced before it went live. my professor could have not been understanding... and this would have been a different story.

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