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Feb 26, 2009 12:09 AM

failed nclex twice..losing all my confidence

Updated Feb 26, 2009 at 04:27 AM by Silverdragon102

hi everyone,

I've been checking this site for 6 mons and decided to register today to share my experience. I failed nclex the second time, just found out the result today. I studied the feuer cd's and did kaplan q-trainers and q-bank religiously. my q-trainer averaging 50-60 and q-bank 65. When i took the test feb. 23, 2009 i feel confident (or maybe i'm denial) on Some of my answer on prioritation, satas, further teaching, except for drugs w/c i'm not sure if i got right(i remember 2 lipid lowering drugs coz ends w/ -statins, also 3 psych drugs, and alot weird drugs never heard of. Got 8 satas and 3 drop down, shut me off 120. I got mixed feeling of emotions i dont understand (am I gonna cry or not). I can still remember the last question I have about shingellosis which about priorization, and my answer is something about isolation or to report the early symptoms (i dont think its a high level question), that make me sad. .I know based on my kaplan test, i can get 10 questions right at the same time and I can get 10 wrong question in a row when i start panicking..

I've been crying the whole day. but my heart really broke when my husband called me names (*****, ********). He said i never learned from my mistakes from the first time i took the exam. I'ts hard to explain to somebody who doesnt understand how nclex work. I'm a graduate from a foreign country, he keep on saying my english is bad thats why i cant comprehend/understand the questions. (Is my english really bad? guys do you understand what i wrote?? do i make sense?) I feel bad..I feel i lost all my confidence! Low self esteem..just need someone to talk to..


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Old Feb 26, 2009, 12:41 AM

Default Re: failed nclex twice..losing all my confidence
no offense... how about leaving your husband for a while?

I understand you completely!
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Old Feb 26, 2009, 04:29 AM

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I think your husband is just trying to put you down. The exam is hard especially one who hasn't trained in the US and who English isn't their first language. I would suggest taking a break for a week and then look at a study plan that you know you can do. I would suggest using the Saunders comprehensive latest edition Do not rush to resit and DO NOT give up
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Old Feb 26, 2009, 09:14 AM

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thanks Silverdragon and cool november. I'm thinking about suzanne's plan. I'd like to visit my family in new jersey, but I'm not sure if he will allow me since we have business to run here in fl. Today, he put a lot of pressure/demands on me coz i failed the test.
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from LadySnyper
Old Feb 26, 2009, 09:47 AM

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Suzzanne's plan is the thing...

The exam is really hard, and i dont think your husbdand knows how hard it is...

Just pick yourself up and try again....

Rest for a while, then start reading books once again...

God bless you
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Old Feb 26, 2009, 09:51 AM

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Unfortunately Suzanne's plan is no longer available
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from vbm83
Old Feb 26, 2009, 09:59 AM

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HEY!!!! I also failed twice! Lets not give up! I am sure we can do it.
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from caliotter3
Old Feb 26, 2009, 10:51 AM

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The biggest trick to the NCLEX is to not give up. Keep on trying and the day will come that you will pass. Put your husband's negativity aside. He just doesn't understand the nature of the NCLEX. Hope he doesn't continue with this attitude once you start working as a nurse.
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from 2008pn
Old Feb 26, 2009, 11:52 AM

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So sorry to hear that, but leave that husband...not saying forever just take a break from it all. No need to bring you down
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Old Feb 26, 2009, 04:48 PM

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guys, thank you for the encouragement. Silverdragon102 : how come suzanne's plan is no longer available? Is that forever or just this time?
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