Re: "Our Spirits Don't Speak English"...this may make you cry
Is he saying this happened as recently as the 1960's and 1970's? I had no idea. I thought this stopped over a century ago. WTDevil???
The only explanations I know for doing this to someone are to assert one's own ways because we think it is for the good of the people we're doing it to or for our own good.
I think in the case of the nuns forcing French speakers to not speak French, the nuns probably thought they were doing a good thing. At least, I'd like to think that nuns would have only good intentions. Am I naive?
I guess like the Palestinians and Israelis there will never be any real peace except maybe on a small, interpersonal scale among groups that are so different from each other. There is too much hurt, too much anger, too much sadness to think otherwise. Forgiving is just too hard for many issues, as too much water has gone under the bridge and, unfortunately, man cannot forget. Man can decide to forgive but, unlike God, we cannot forget and must repeatedly make the decision to forgive. For lots of people, this is just too hard, especially when no apologies or restitution come from the offenders. I don't know what to say except that we have to try not to let those who violate us steal our peace and joy, not let them turn us into being what they are. We must fight self-loathing, too.
I'm sorry for anyone who had to endure this horrendous maltreatment and pray that you stay strong. Tell the story, teach it to the next generation and to the public at large so it will, hopefully, never happen again. May this man and all others who went through this find peace.
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