Re: Confused about many things..
It is worth going back. Don't give up. There are grants and scholarships out there to help you pay. Once you find a school you like, the advisors can let you know the best way to get the classes you want. At my school, they do it via internet to get the best prereq classes. Once you're in the nursing program, you choose thru a lottery system.
My advice, is to not overlook the community colleges. A degree there will also make you eligible to get your RN thru the state. Then, hopefully, the hospital you work at will pay for your bachelors. I too have a bachelors in another field, but chose this route due to cost and I was still able to get a scholarship to help out with things.
Henry Ford and Schoolcraft College are both good. Wayne State Univ. also has a program for those with a bachelors but I believe there are some stick areas - like your prereqs must be thru them and GPAs are very competitive.
Good luck. It's worth going for.
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