Re: What should I expect in nursing school
I was surprised in my first semester at how easy nursing school was. Then I was more rudely surprised in my second semester, when reality set in. I was talking, recently, to a recent grad from the same program who had a similar experience. So I'd strongly recommend developing good study habits before you even start the program. I also strongly recommend spending some time on Allnurses, but I guess you've got that covered.
The "weird" questions are a little unsettling, it's true. They are also good prep for NCLEX (but I see you're Canadian--I have no idea how it works for you folks, but I imagine it's similar.) I truly hated the ones where you have to pick all of the right answers--maybe 3-4 out of six. Still, in retrospect, they are also a fair simulation of real life. And picking which of several right answers is most right is roughly similar to the real-life choice of picking which is least wrong. The multiple layers of red tape, jumping through hoops, and arbitrary, pointless rules will also apply directly to hospital life.
I've talked to a few people who don't care for study groups. I did a lot of my homework alone, where I was free to cuss and cry and throw my expensive books across the room, but I also found time in a study group very useful. I met a couple of wonderful friends when we started a carpool and we did some valuable work during our long commutes. Conveniently, we never had more than one of us meltdown at once, so the other two could be a stabalizing influence. Some form of emotional support is crucial, because the stress is pretty severe.
I also recommend being ready to use your instructors as resources. I don't mean get them to do your work for you. That isn't likely to happen. But if you can avoid an "us vs. them" mentality, there is often at least one you can talk to about things that are bothering you. Most can remember, at least vaguely, what it was like to be you, and most are willing to help. (Act like a grown up, though. Save your whining for your friends. Seek your instructors for advice about specific problems, after you have taken ownership of them and looked for your own answers.)
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