by drazilxof

Guys,
Up until Jan '07 I had always worked in a male dominated environment by far. A few women scattered about the factory, but not many. I went to college in Jan '07, got my Associates, am starting the RN program in one week, and work on the med/surg floor at the hospital. I little preface, then my question: Been married to my wife for 2 yrs., my home life is very stressful again, raising kids, I have my own need of some counseling (my mind) and serious anxiety/ depression issues..at least it is serious to me. I have never been dx'd as major depressive or any such thing, I just know that it is time to get some professional advice...anyway here is what I seem to be experiencing: ever since I started college, my wife seems to have a very hard time accepting the fact that I am around women all the time now. She would say that it is not a problem but actions/suspicions say otherwise. She has become totally insecure..I do try to remember that this is hard for her and I as well. I am sure I miss the boat on some things, but she is an attention monger and I just can't seem to make her feel wanted/loved...it is getting very tiring!! Did any of you men experience your wife or girlfriend freaking out on this type of stuff? I am sure there is more to it, but this seems to me to be a major problem. Side note: if she knew how the Nurses I work with talked she would "have a canary!!" Thanks for listening...any similarities in your experience?
D

Re: Trouble on the homefront

This is my opinion/recommendation

Both of you need to attend some couples counseling sessions. This problem is not going to go away on it's own. Some professional guidance will help you find some happiness. Along with counseling, you need to reassure her that work is work, you are committed to her, and your family.

Jason

Re: Trouble on the homefront

Ditto what silliemunkie said.