It looks like someone did report one or more posts to the moderators. You can do that, if you feel you are being abused. There's a "report" button at the bottom of each post. Or you can just elect not to respond, and it will usually die of its own accord. You can also PM a mod for that forum and ask that it be closed, and they may or may not concur.

I didn't have a chance to review the whole thread, but I know abortion can be a hot issue in the US. Is it the same in Canada? One of my coworkers moved here from Canada. Whenever a patient mentions how nice she is, we usually reply, "Well, she's Canadian." Probably not the worst stereotype. Anyway, I'm sorry it sounds like you got knocked around a bit, and good luck with whatever you decide.

how do you stop a thread?

Yes, I'm a Buffy fan. Really liked the original movie, but came to like the series even better. I liked the Angel series, too, and really liked Firefly. If anyone could make me forget Sarah Michelle Gellar, it would have to be Morena Baccarin. Oh, and, you know, the story lines are great, too.

By your avatar I can guess you are a "Buffy" fan. I am a straight, married 51y/o man with 6grandchildren and I really miss "Buffy". The series finale was better than most, and the cross over to "Angel" by Spike filled the void for a while. - I also have 3 Cats. I glad to see a kindred spirit.

thanks mike. i am glad you approved! lol. and also eriksoln and i have spoken by pm and have come to be friends

I saw your post. I think it said pretty much everything I could say. And I hope you know how dear to our hearts you are to very many of us.
I was very pleased to see your career plans. It seems like a wonderful thing, and I can imagine you would be great at it. My very best wishes.
Mike

you can def still use me. I found it and commented myself (got kinda mad so ummmm it may not have been the most polite) but you can still use me if you want to

also where is this thread i would like to see it

dont mind at all you can flail my name around if you want to lol. people know i am not a nurse and i am not afraid of it. people have told me to leave for not being a nurse and i have told them i dont care what you think so go ahead and use me as an example

Yes, I am a middle-aged bachelor with a houseful of cats who loves BtVS. But that's normal, right?