ThePrincessBride, BSN, RN 52,356 Views
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Power of Attorney only covers legal and money stuff.
legal Guardian controls health.
two different legal documents.
how are you supposed to keep them awake? Takzer?
No one ever better try to stop me from taking a nap!
I agree with PP to consider NICU. You get your baby fix and there are definitely action-packed days to be had.
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So admins, please delete this thread.
Ask your supervising physician for help. That is what they are there fore.
Meh, I'm sure the Wal Mart shopping cart is way dirtier than my scrubs.
If you are close to starting a family right now, would you be up for starting a family then waiting until the kids are in school to apply to NNP program? I am in an adult gero NP program... just had our first child this summer and hoping for two more before I graduate. Not going to sugar coat it--sometimes it really sucks. I was discharged from the hospital at 0830, had to run to school to give a presentation at 0900, then go back to the hospital to pick up the kiddo. I know others who have started their families during the program, so it's doable. But I also know a lot of women who waited until the kids were older and more independent, which seems like a smart option.
I just would be hesitant to wait to start a family. You really don't know what could happen and you may need to have time to get pregnant. GL!
It is something I am passionate about and find fulfilling.
I also worry about the experience I am getting. I currently have nine months of experience in a level 3 with more than half being off orientation. I have yet to take care of vented baby by myself, give vasopressors or successfully get an IV in (though I have a few attempts).
I look at the people going directly into np school without experience and am baffled. Maybe they are smarter than me, but I am terrified. NNPs practically run the unit and if the most senior nurse can't do something, it falls back on the NNP. I want to do right by these babies and be proficient.
At the same time, I want babies of my own. I am 25. The program is almost three years. If I start next year, I will finish at 28/29. If I wait another year, it will be 29/30. I want two kids with the option of a third and feel the clock ticking.
I have yet to take care of vented baby by myself, give vasopressors or successfully get an IV in (though I have a few attempts).
You love your job and you're well on your way to becoming proficient. Having a job you can easily pull off and enjoy while raising a family is pretty ideal.
Unless you already have the future father of your children, choose to have kids with someone who can provide the health insurance and then work perdiem. A friend of mine made a very high wage working perdiem in the NICU choosing her own schedule while her fire fighter husband received outstanding benefits from his employer. She had the best of both worlds, great career and a flex schedule for her family.
Whew! You've got a lot of variables in your decision.
First, let me say that bedside experience is the best thing you can have before entering NP school. I've worked with some of those NPs who have never spent time at the bedside and it is difficult. So many of them feel that their education puts them on a social strata above the mere bedside nurse and don't bother to listen to assessments, gut feelings or the voice of experience. A good NP will gather information wherever she can, including from the bedside nurse who has been with the patient for 46 hours this week.
NICU is a specialized area, and I'm not sure how easy it is to transfer out of that specialty as an NP. Can you do an extra practicum in seven years when you cannot STAND another underweight baby, shiney parent or needle stick on a neonate? If you decide you like the. Critical care aspect but not the babies, how hard is it to switch to an adult ICU? L & D? A clinic position? Some people are happy as clams for 40 years; others have to move around every few years. Which are you?
School can be done while pregnant, although it seems like a helluva lot of work. A close friend went to NP school over four years and delivered three healthy children during that time. Of course she had a husband with a high 6 figure income and a nanny or two. But it can be done with family support and the support of the ladies at church.
I'm afraid my personal stories may not be that helpful. I hated hated HATED nursing, and went to school to be an MBA. I worked full time, went to school full time and made lots of contacts and had some attractive job offers. As graduation neared, I had an epiphany -- I really didn't want to give up the ICU. School was more fun that anything else I could have done with the time or they money at that time, so I don't regret getting the MBA. But I can see where, with today's cost of tuition, if you finished a degree, incurring mountains of debt it would be damned awful to then find out you hate the job for which this degree has prepared you. Or in the words of my fecund friend, "I could have saved myself the time, aggravation and the debt and been just as happy staying here in the ICU.
The only story I have that could help you is this one: I wanted babies. I waited because I was young and my marriage was shaky. Then I got uterine cancer at 25 and the baby option was gone. Have your family, if that's what you want, and work the other stuff around that.
Hope this helps.
NICU is far, far from quiet and peaceful. Maybe at moments it's quiet, but it's also caring for the sickest and most fragile patients you could possibly encounter. It's calculating and titrating micro-doses of medications to maintain blood pressure and heart rate, achieve fluid balance without fluid overload, managing specialized ventilators, and constant observation and assessment to detect life-threatening complications like ventricular hemorrhage and necrotizing enterocolitis. Please don't think NICU is all quiet and peaceful, feeding little babies until they get big enough to go home.
Shookclays, it's fine to have an idea of where you would like to work when you enter school. But keep in mind that the NICU will be a minute part of your nursing education. In fact, most nursing programs only do a one day shadow in the NICU, if any time is spent there at all. And after graduation, NICU positions are highly coveted. Few will hire nurses with no previous experience. It's possible, but depending on your location, it's very possible you may not be able to enter the NICU right after graduation. Your focus during school should be getting a well rounded education, learning how to think, assess, and act like a nurse so that you can pass the NCLEX exam and become licensed. By all means, take advantage of opportunities to network and get a feel for what nursing is like in the NICU, if your school offers them, but also leave yourself open to other areas and opportunities as well. Then, after graduation, if you still feel NICU is where you want to be, search for jobs in that field, with the understanding that you may need to accept a position in another speciality in order to get the experience required for employment in the NICU.
Certainly why I dislike adults. They annoy the hell out of me and i will NEVER care for them as a RN. I would rather remain unemployed until I find a NICU job. ������
I think you have tunnel vision on n this and should be open to other specialties. NICU is very hard to get into initially for a new grad.
I thought I wanted pediatric oncology. I still would if I wouldn't have to deal with their families. Once I thought about that, no way.
I like me some trauma.
Nope. Except that I did not want babies in any way shape or form. Little people are strange.
They are like a species all of their own. They hide sickness and can turn bad quickly. Then they die on you. Nope no babies for me.
Should have seen seen me in my childbearing clinical.
Because nursing has failed to ever produce comprehensive "advanced practice." Neonatology is a subspec of pediatrics so why nursing doesn't follow this ideology is beyond me.
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