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No. 20
from MassED
Old Jul 25, 2008, 04:14 PM
Updated Jul 25, 2008 at 04:16 PM by MassED

Default Re: Would You Prefer a Male Nurse?
Originally Posted by djc1981 View Post
Hey guys. Since most of us here are nursing students, I was just curious...would you guys prefer a male nurse over a female nurse in general? I know it doesn't matter as long as they did their job compentently...but if given the choice, what would you choose? I personally don't mind for most things, but I sure was glad to have a male nurse when I had to have a mole on my scrotum checked So for me it just depends on the situation I suppose. Thoughts?
Where I'm from (California) - when you write "hey guys" you are talking to everyone... so I'm going to provide my input.... though I see guys responded to you, mostly. Same thing goes for "coke" - when I want a drink of soda of any type, I'd ask for a "coke" and the person would ask what kind.... Just how I grew up.

So the answer to that question depends on what the male nurse needs to do. And what they look like..
Just kidding. I don't care, as long as it's not too embarassing.... if it's for a gyn thing, I'd prefer a female... otherwise I wouldn't care.
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No. 21
from MassED
Old Jul 25, 2008, 04:19 PM

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Originally Posted by authenticlloyd View Post
I'm also a male. And if I were to be a patient, I would be choosing males to nurse me. I just want to observe if they got gentle hands in performing those procedures.
Wanting to observe if they have gentle hands in performing procedures??? ummm..... weird response. Sorry.
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No. 22
from MassED
Old Jul 25, 2008, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by FutureNurse23 View Post
I'm a male and I perfer male doctors and nurses. It seems that I have a complex with thinking that a female nures or doctor gives a motherly impact on the situation. And when I think of my mother I think of someone over reacting on the situation. Male healthcare professionals always have a more laidback approach to the situation which always makes me feel more comfortable.
maybe some female nurses have a motherly reaction to you. I leave my mothering at home with my kids, where it belongs. I don't have the time or the inclination to mother or spew advice or opinions to anyone. Keeping all of that out makes for a rather easy dialogue and nurse-patient relationship - get in, get out, get 'er done (as those North Carolinians would say) I'm sure there are many out there who feel as I do about that.
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No. 23
Old Jul 25, 2008, 08:37 PM

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Most people think I'm a teenager thats probably why they play the mothering role to me. But what is so crazy I even had a male doctor play the religious card to me.
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No. 24
from MassED
Old Jul 25, 2008, 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by FutureNurse23 View Post
Most people think I'm a teenager thats probably why they play the mothering role to me. But what is so crazy I even had a male doctor play the religious card to me.
There are plenty of idiots out there to go around, always someone trying to change or convert people....

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No. 25
from Laurab14
Old Jul 26, 2008, 05:55 PM

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Reading all these posts have really made me think about the question. I really wouldn't have a problem with a male nurse, however I live in a very small area, and wouldn't want any male that I knew. I am pretty modest, and would rather not have that thought in my head next time I saw them. I also hate to be vulnerable (like most nurses) and when giving birth to my twins, I hated for my fellow nurses(female) thinking I was weak.

If something needed done to me I will go to the big city.


Laura RN
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No. 26
Old Jul 26, 2008, 06:11 PM

Piggy Bank Re: Would You Prefer a Male Nurse?
Interesting thread!

That being said, I don't really care one way or the other (unless I personally know &/or work with a male nurse & they're privy to my medical record/personal body parts). But if my life depended on it...I really couldn't care less!


Cheers ,
Moe
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No. 27
from wymnwise
Old Sep 15, 2008, 06:33 AM

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Interesting thread. I have been accused of being irrational, and much worse for having a same sex preference as a woman patient. Male nurses have gone on and on about how it offends them and their professionalism. Yet, here a number of men have a preference one way or the other. Research has also been done on adolescent males fyi who prefer males for intimate exams and procedures, and suggested that the best way to get them to keep appointments is to accommodate that sensitivity as a group, rather than putting them on the spot. Just interesting that there seems to be less opposition to males requesting male care than females requesting female care. Some male nurses have even gone so far as to suggest that it is discrimination and that patients should not be given a choice, even if same sex nurses are available. In the case of the adolescent males that discouraged them from accessing medical care.
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No. 28
from leemacaz
Old Sep 15, 2008, 08:44 AM

Default Re: Would You Prefer a Male Nurse?
Originally Posted by wymnwise View Post
Interesting thread. I have been accused of being irrational, and much worse for having a same sex preference as a woman patient. Male nurses have gone on and on about how it offends them and their professionalism. Yet, here a number of men have a preference one way or the other. Research has also been done on adolescent males fyi who prefer males for intimate exams and procedures, and suggested that the best way to get them to keep appointments is to accommodate that sensitivity as a group, rather than putting them on the spot. Just interesting that there seems to be less opposition to males requesting male care than females requesting female care. Some male nurses have even gone so far as to suggest that it is discrimination and that patients should not be given a choice, even if same sex nurses are available. In the case of the adolescent males that discouraged them from accessing medical care.
Interesting.....the exact same feelings have been expressed by many males as well....they feel they get put down for asking for same sex care providers....(find a urologist with male nurses if ya can)...and some males have experienced irate female nurses when they asked...maybe there are folks of both sexes who would, for their own reasons, prefer same sex care givers..and appreciate not getting grief or insults for asking.
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No. 29
from wymnwise
Old Sep 15, 2008, 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by leemacaz View Post
Interesting.....the exact same feelings have been expressed by many males as well....they feel they get put down for asking for same sex care providers....(find a urologist with male nurses if ya can)...and some males have experienced irate female nurses when they asked...maybe there are folks of both sexes who would, for their own reasons, prefer same sex care givers..and appreciate not getting grief or insults for asking.
Well said.
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