Re: NEED HELP WITH WIFE Originally Posted by jgimages
hey milan18400....I am not exactly the leading authority on this topic but my friend I have two words for you...GOOD LUCK.....I am not being insensitive but what the heck do women really want???

This is a classic case, the man is busting his behind for his family to provide a better life for his wife and daughter and has to deal with this. If you were lazy bum and did nothing you would still be the bad guy.

...Your wife needs help and she needs to be mature enough to want to change. ....I know I am probably going to get killed by the female nurses but geezz for a guy it can be extremely frustrating understanding (well trying to understand) women.........yes I am finished

A little coarse if you ask me. Also, for all you know this guy earned 6 figures before going to nursing school -- I did.
OP:
Frankly, it seems unlikely that her past was unknown to you before you married her or that her behavior is anything new. So to expect her to adjust herself because you are now finding this difficult is, well, too bad. Undoubtedly this isn't a healthy situation for either of you -- did I read correctly that you have a new baby as well? That is what I would call pouring petrol on the fire -- again a little late.
Ask her what she wants from you -- not a bunch of people on Allnurses.com. By the way I am sure if she finds you posted such detail about her on a website she will be thrilled.
As for therapy, you should both be doing it, together. Have you looked at why you were attracted to someone so obviously damaged? I'd say you both need to look under some rocks.
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