I'm not gay, but I don't automatically put anyone in a category due to sexual orientation. There was a hot white girl at the facility that I got along with very well, but she's married and I'm married, so it was all business. Same with the gay guy.
The gay guy was very supportive in helping me meet my objectives, and I think he is a very good nurse and a good person. Same with the hottie white girl. Both helped me out quite a bit in my orientation period and I owe them both a debt of gratitude. Hope to see them again some day.
I've moved on to another facility that has an entirely different focus, so any chance of meeting up with either one is pretty much zero, but I would be happy to see either one.
I don't care at all what my coworkers' sexual orientation is, straight or gay.
I will say that if a male cuts off his penis and testicles and is covered in nonsensical tattoos from head to foot, he is crying out for help. He is not trying to become a woman. To refer to that person as "she" instead of "patient" is a grave disservice.
When you've cut one or two down from their nooses you'll get the idea.