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No. 20
from Mmmm Gas
Old Apr 10, 2009, 05:06 PM

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All is well friend....

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No. 21
from Seanizzle
Old Apr 20, 2009, 03:35 PM

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Lack of male role models huh? As a student myself, I personally look at this as a challenge to be a role model for the males entering the profession. I was also pretty discouraged about nursing (especially during my OB rotation), but doing a couple of rotations in the ER was like a breath of fresh air. Sure I do have my days where I feel like some of the things that we are taught is a joke, but I try to keep all of the options we're going to have in in the back of my mind. Whether it be CRNA, NP, ICU, ER, administration, etc., we'll always have options, along with job stability, and financial security! I definitely understand where you're coming from as a former football player and pre-med myself. At first, It was extremely hard for me to adopt a "caring personality." I tried to act like someone I wasn't. I later learned while interacting with patients that being myself (even if I have a jock-ish personaity), and humor can go a long way with patients.
As far as the estrogen goes, again, all you can do is be yourself, whether they like it or not! Be respectful, but still, be yourself. This profession needs more men and efficiency! I guess I'm fortunate to be in a program with quite a few guys, but I feel your pain! stay strong!
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No. 22
from plowboy911
Old Apr 20, 2009, 08:37 PM

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Good thread. Might I suggest looking to the docs for role models / testosterone? Ha, joking.

I felt the same way all through nursing school and still feel that 3 years out. I get through it by keeping the end goal in mind. Also, I do not engage in the mindless banter that goes on at the front desk. I find a computer in the back and stay near my patient's rooms unless I need to check charts. I am polite to all, but there to do my job.

Bottom line, just get through it. If it's really not for you then cut your losses now and get out. Life's to short to do a job you don't want to do. A friend of mine left mid way through our program and has never regretted it. Only you know what is best for you. Good luck.
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No. 23
from nursenow
Old Sep 20, 2009, 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by KOCMOHABT View Post
As stated before, in most hospitals CNAs or maybe even LVNs will do the dirty jobs before you will. Also there are many jobs that you can have as an RN that have little to do with direct patient care if it's not your thing. I felt the same way in the beginning of the school but then as I had more rotations at different hospitas the "unsure" feeling has gone away.

Wow. You could not be more wrong in the info you gave him about LVNs doing his dirty work. Are you a nurse in the USA?
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No. 24
Old Sep 20, 2009, 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by pugdaddy View Post
Hey man ;

It may just be your hospital. Everywhere I go, the nurses are always very busy doing medical things and the CNAs do most of the stuff you're describing. The foundation of nursing does come from a foundation of that type of "caring" you implied. Really, I'm thinking you're on a lousy floor. Try working in an ED or ICU and you'll be doing more "manly" things. Or better yet, apply now to MSN/DNP programs and get where you want to be.

I'm in the same boat as you, but attending a NP program. But, you must realize that in order to be a NURSE practitioner, you must engage yourself in the entire NURSING experience. Why didn't you apply to PA school to get a more medical practice approach to health care?

BTW - You don't have to worry about making a point to assert your heterosexuality as a p.s., you already went out of your way to do it at the beginning (football, premed). But, I have to tell you that from your writing, you come across like you're about an inch away from dotting your I's with a little heart!

; Dave (Queer dude.)
LOL I have to agree with Dave here.

You knew you sounded like an insensitive jock when you wrote that, it's called overcompensation.

Oh, and 9 times out of 10, when people emphatically imply that they are "not something", they usually are that thing lmao! Just sayin.....
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No. 25
Old Oct 08, 2009, 04:17 AM

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yes, it is not for you, get out now!
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No. 26
from nursenow
Old Nov 03, 2009, 01:20 PM

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I am a male LVN working towards BSN and when I was about a third of the way into LVN school I realized I had made a HUGE mistake in thinking I wanted to be a nurse. It was a devastating realization. At the time I had no choice but to continue on. I was totaly miserable. Nine months later I realized that starting nursing school was one of the best moves I have ever made. Today I love nursing. Wish I had done it years earlier.
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No. 27
Old Nov 03, 2009, 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by emtb2rn View Post
Lot of good points above.



Head for the ER and work nights. Testosterone flows from everyone regardless of gender
ROFLMAO! I worked with some women in the ER on night shift that were more manly than I am.
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