Hey all!
I recently got full-time custody of my 2 kids (6 and 3, girl and boy), so already work+daddy time is crunched.
I had a side gig I did at home doing web development for a company out in Cali so I've learned to maximize the most of my few hours after bedtime. I work full time in IT and the drive is about 1hr each way which is killer.. but the job is flexible so it's hard to justify a more stressful job closer to home.. may be a net loss or just a wash.
It's all about planning and efficiency, here's my schedule:
7am:
Wake up, make breakfast for daughter, get kids dressed, get daughter ready for school
7:50am:
Make sure daughter makes it to bus on time & cook the 3 eggs I eat each morning for breakfast
8am:
Get son in car and head to daycare where they give him breakfast
Back on road and head to work
9:15am (ish):
Get into work - eat lunch (tuna packet or can of soup) at desk so I can get off a bit early
5:10pm (ish):
Get off work and head to pick up kids
6:15pm:
Pick up kids, head home.. maybe hit the gym for 40 minutes if I'm lucky
7:30pm:
Make dinner for the kids, check homework, figure out shopping list and what needs to get done for the next day, get kids to brush teeth, read them stories, put them to bed.
8:15pm (ish):
Make myself dinner (chicken and rice.. sandwhich.. something fast and healthy)
8:40pm:
Take the dinner upstairs and eat and work (or study now)
11pm:
Brush teeth, figure out everyone's clothes for tomorrow, make up an excuse why I can't floss tonight, and then head to sleep mad that I didn't do this at 10pm.
It's a tough schedule but it's been working
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