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No. 40
from Camdfw
Old Apr 27, 2008, 09:20 AM

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I am a first year nursing student and I'm gay.

For the past 10 years I was a Flight Attendant for a major carrier.

Both of these professions are viewed mostly as a woman's profession, HOWEVER I can tell you this, about 50% or more of the men I flew w/ back in the day were straight. (flight attendants)

There will always be stereotypes out there associated w/ certain groups, people and careers. Some of us will fall into that stereotype (gay=nurse, etc...) others of us will not.

Our differences is what makes the world a much better place!
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No. 41
from Tweety
Old Apr 27, 2008, 09:33 AM

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Interesting that the stereotypical myth is still out there. I think it's changing though as time goes on. I've seen the last 15 years that more and more straight guys are comfortable with themselves enough to go into nursing and are comfortable working with gay people as well.

There are five of us males on my shift (one of whom is a tech) and I'm the only gay guy. They are all in their 20s and 30s and quite comfortable being nurses, and are comfortable with me. In fact they were very supportive during the breakup of my long-term relationship and are now trying to fix me up with gay guys they know.

Sometimes I wish there were more gay guys in nursing because I'm the one starting to feel like the freak and would like some peers. LOL
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No. 42
from tabrown1
Old May 05, 2008, 07:48 AM

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In my school there are about 25 males out of 370 students. I don't think any of them are gay. So this steryotype will change in time. Even when I took my prereqs, not one of us was gay.
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No. 43
from SÆLUM
Old Jul 30, 2008, 02:50 AM

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I'll be a junior this fall, and in my first/second year of nursing (liberal arts school). Second year with my cohort. Anyway, 8 guys out of 80 in my cohort, and I'm the only gay guy (3 are ROTC). Sort of funny, I study with the ROTC guys, and I'll be rooming with 2 other ROTC guys and a rower (I'm a rower as well).

I think there is only one gay guy in the native cohort above me, and only one in the cohort that graduated in the spring. So few!

Its definitely irritating when people a) presume or ask if I am going to be a doctor later on and b) seem content with my career choice because I'm gay.
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No. 44
Old Aug 05, 2008, 12:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Tweety View Post
Interesting that the stereotypical myth is still out there. I think it's changing though as time goes on. I've seen the last 15 years that more and more straight guys are comfortable with themselves enough to go into nursing and are comfortable working with gay people as well.

There are five of us males on my shift (one of whom is a tech) and I'm the only gay guy. They are all in their 20s and 30s and quite comfortable being nurses, and are comfortable with me. In fact they were very supportive during the breakup of my long-term relationship and are now trying to fix me up with gay guys they know.

Sometimes I wish there were more gay guys in nursing because I'm the one starting to feel like the freak and would like some peers. LOL
LOL Tweety, sometimes I wish there were more gay males in nursing too. I am the only openly gay male on my unit. I work with many straight men (it seems Tele is the place to be for men in my hospital) and love the diversity. I find these men very comfortable being nurses and am ecstatic that they are so.

I hate stereotypes, and this is another one. Yes, nursing has many many more females than males occupying positions. However, I find so many more men are comfortable going into the profession and calling themselves nurses (gay or straight). Times are changing, for nurses and gay people alike.

I must be redundant and say what I always say, I could care less with who I work with; male or female, gay or straight. As long as they are good nurses, I am a happy camper...
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No. 45
from Datastream
Old Aug 05, 2008, 10:11 PM

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I don't receive the gay stereotype from people when they ask what I do. Although what seems to drive the questions are the gross factor. I'm surprised how many people equate nursing with a$$ wiping and bodily fluid cleanup. I'm always a little perplexed by this.
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No. 46
from Miwila
Old Aug 19, 2008, 06:45 PM

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I've been working in healtcare for four years and have never met a male nurse who was gay. On the other hand I work a 7pm-7am shift that is only half the size of the day staff and predominantly female but I do agree the gay male nurse is an exaggerated stereotype.
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No. 47
from Dr.Nurse2b
Old Aug 19, 2008, 11:39 PM

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Originally Posted by jbeau View Post
So, a question has arisen in my mind since I have been in CNA class waiting for nursing school to start.

There are only 2 guys in my class of 25, and the other guy is married and I'm gay. After doing clinicals in the hospital, I have yet to see another gay male CNA or nurse.

Where does this stereotype come from? I am not seeing it at all.
Maybe the stereotype comes from people who assume that men who are caring, compassionate, understanding and concerned for another human being are also gay. I get it all the time...my wife thinks its funny.
Maybe I'm gay and don't know it?
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No. 48
from 3207beach
Old Aug 24, 2008, 08:19 PM

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I think it has more to do with the concentration of gay males in the city where you're working.
There are probably a lot more gay male nurses in San Francisco than in Des Moines.
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No. 49
Old Aug 24, 2008, 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by psychnurse1998 View Post
Since I graduated in 71..I remember working with 3 gay nurses. I have fielded more than 20 comments in my lifetime that suggested I must be gay to choose nursing. In another posting I believe someone suggested changing the title from NURSE to something else. I think before more males jump into nursing that will have to happen. I am 62, and I know with aging, and the increase in female hormones that entails..the name will be more fitting., But personally, I am ready for a title change now.
It could help alleviate the nurse shortage. Sorry If i read that in a post here and have adopted it as mine. Why not Hospital tech l or Hospital tech ll if more advanced on down the line. Or Hospital tech/OR spec
or Hospital tech/ICU specialist. I think NURSE was fine for the Middle ages, but not for today. I think the public seems confused..too,..I get ..how can you be a nurse you are man? Not often but comments like that do surface. But, being a female dominated profession, don't see how a title change would be in their list of priorities. I think most would fight legislation going in that direction. For the record..I am straight..
My brother said he would have liked to have been a nurse had it not been for the negative stereotypes attached to men in nursing... he also suggested a title change as a way to draw more men into nursing....
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