A "dating female students in your class" post - page 11

by Jedi of Zen

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Well, having just completed my 1st semester of the nursing program, I have found that as a single guy, you are really in (at times) a very weird catch-22 being in a female-dominated student body. Although I definitely do not... Read More


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    Quote from kntdoneyet
    btw, whats with all the female opinions, not to sound snotty, but I thought this was a male nurse forum.
    I think its interesting to hear what the ladies think, but yeah it should be a predominantly male discussion...
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    Quote from kntdoneyet
    well. I broke many cardinal rules. I hooked up with a married woman. She was in a failing marriage, but never mentioned divorce. So I didn't think I had anything to worry about. Until she told her husband(who was cheating on her for many years). And he filed for a divorce. Did I mention we both applied to the same nursing program and that I was her tutor for both her a and p classes. My fears were made reality when we both got in, and we were in three out of four classes together. I tried to back of, saying I didn't have time to be FWB. But she wouldn't back off. She would try to cuddle during clinical rotation, while noone was looking, and I felt uncomfortable talking to any girls, thinking she would cause a scene. I basically isolated myself from all my classmates because of her. I was finally put at ease at the end of this semester when I found out she failed clinical. This means she is being held back a semester, so i'm in the clear.
    Is she pretty and hot? if not then yah good riddance..
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    lets just say, good riddance, lol
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    This topic is an interesting one. I returned to school to complete prereqs for a ABSN program last year. I was amazed at the number of women in my prereq classes alone. At some point, a few of my male friends in the class and female friends all agreed to link up at the end of the semester. We all knew it was a perfect idea, and it gave us something to look forward to. I must say that this is the best way to go. I didn't hook up with any of the girls, but hanging out with them and watching them get loose was alot of fun. I am one hundered percent sure that I could have hooked up with all three of these women. But I realized that right now in my life, my psychological age is older than my biological age. In other words, I am focused as if I am turning this nursing thing into my medical professional career. This isn't the time, atleast for me, to be hooking up.
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    Quote from malenurse2012
    This topic is an interesting one. I returned to school to complete prereqs for a ABSN program last year. I was amazed at the number of women in my prereq classes alone. At some point, a few of my male friends in the class and female friends all agreed to link up at the end of the semester. We all knew it was a perfect idea, and it gave us something to look forward to. I must say that this is the best way to go. I didn't hook up with any of the girls, but hanging out with them and watching them get loose was alot of fun. I am one hundered percent sure that I could have hooked up with all three of these women. But I realized that right now in my life, my psychological age is older than my biological age. In other words, I am focused as if I am turning this nursing thing into my medical professional career. This isn't the time, atleast for me, to be hooking up.
    Can you be more specific by "link up?" I ask since you went on to say you didn't "hook up" -- at first glance I might have used those words synonymously. By link did you just mean "hang out" outside of class? Or something else?
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    Lol I think he meant dating by saying hooking up.
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    Ah. Well... I am not going to waste my time actively pursuing any girls but if I get IOI's let's just say I won't dismiss them immediately. It's one of those "I'll cross that bridge when I get to it" scenarios, I think.
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    ^ That's the way to go.

    Let the girls come on to you, since realistically we are the prize in the end.
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    Quote from EmarosaNYC
    ^ That's the way to go.

    Let the girls come on to you, since realistically we are the prize in the end.
    I've got to admit, if all these stories are true about this female attention directed towards the guys, it will be an interesting experience having the tables turned, that is, not having to be the pursuer, and instead being the pursuee. Will be quite nice I think.
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    My elderly widowed mother in law lives in a retirement community and it is pretty much the same way there. The elderly widows far outnumber the guys and compete head on for their attentions... upping the ante all along as to what constitutes 'proper attention' that should be given back to the guys. Life is good for those old men there. :-)
    Last edit by Clodhopper on Aug 2, '12 : Reason: typo


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