A "dating female students in your class" post

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Well, having just completed my 1st semester of the nursing program, I have found that as a single guy, you are really in (at times) a very weird catch-22 being in a female-dominated student body.

Although I definitely do not complain about the female-to-male ratio, I have learned - the hard way, really - that trying to date one (or, god forbid, even more than one) of your classmates can in many ways be a disastrous decision. Because even though you will likely interact with your female of interest every single day at school, that still doesn't change the fact that you still have to stay focused and on the ball if you want to succeed in nursing school. At one point, I thought that because we were both in the same program, at the same school, etc. it could still work - but man, that just hasn't necessarily shown itself to be the case, in my experience. You simply cannot have your head in the clouds and still do well academically. I would love to be proven wrong on this, but I'm hedging my bets carefully from here on out. It's hard sometimes, trying to find that balance - because even though I'm relatively young (29), I'm not going to pretend that I want to stay single forever - but I definitely don't want to risk losing my "edge" with my studies.

Any other guys experienced anything like this?

^ That's the way to go.

Let the girls come on to you, since realistically we are the prize in the end.

I've got to admit, if all these stories are true about this female attention directed towards the guys, it will be an interesting experience having the tables turned, that is, not having to be the pursuer, and instead being the pursuee. Will be quite nice I think. :)

My elderly widowed mother in law lives in a retirement community and it is pretty much the same way there. The elderly widows far outnumber the guys and compete head on for their attentions... upping the ante all along as to what constitutes 'proper attention' that should be given back to the guys. Life is good for those old men there. :-)

Everyone in my class back stabs each other, one of the bad cohorts. If it was from another cohort of nursing students gladly :) in my group, definite no, it adds extra stress or as the ladies put it " Drama".

I think messing around with married women is just bad karma.. Nothing good can ever come of it ! Likely you are not from the south. Usually if the husband catches your messing around with his wife, you have an involuntary vasectomy.. LOL

I think messing around with married women is just bad karma.. Nothing good can ever come of it ! Likely you are not from the south. Usually if the husband catches your messing around with his wife, you have an involuntary vasectomy.. LOL

And this is why as I've gotten older, the first thing I do is look at a woman's hand...

Personally , i have done some courses with classes filled with women/girls and i have topped the class and dated many of the girls there. My secret , u have to be Really cute Naturally, u have to not take on the girls - let them come to you, Study hard, exercise regularly, And be an educated class clown-if u understand that - funny but Educated jokes. Girls will love you no matter if one or two dislike you, teachers will love you. And u are just being u-That is to say if u are like me. peace!

Personally , i have done some courses with classes filled with women/girls and i have topped the class and dated many of the girls there. My secret , u have to be Really cute Naturally, u have to not take on the girls - let them come to you, Study hard, exercise regularly, And be an educated class clown-if u understand that - funny but Educated jokes. Girls will love you no matter if one or two dislike you, teachers will love you. And u are just being u-That is to say if u are like me. peace!

Cute naturally? Check, or I wouldn't have gotten hit on by two hot cougars last week.

Let the girls come to you? Sure, no problem. I can hit on girls anywhere. Nursing school is one of the rare places where girls might (we'll see in my case) do the pursuing. Eager to see if this happens.

Study hard? No problem, I like school. Have a few degrees already.

Exercise regularly? P90X and then some for the last two years. No problem there.

Educated class clown? That can be done with a sharp mind which I think I have.

I can't wait for January.

Guess Ur Like me! hahaha Personality Wise Tho! hahaha! Cool man!

And this is why as I've gotten older, the first thing I do is look at a woman's hand...

I'm 44 and I say amen to that. Seen it blow up in many friends' and coworkers' faces... not worth the drama!!!

Specializes in CCRN, ED, Unit Manager.

How about dating nurses at your clinical site?

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How about dating nurses at your clinical site?

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My response to that is wait until after you graduate, and make sure you don't choose to work at that facility once you do. Then you should be fine.

Specializes in CCRN, ED, Unit Manager.
My response to that is wait until after you graduate, and make sure you don't choose to work at that facility once you do. Then you should be fine.

I think I'm fairly safe because she works in Maternity and my rotation is done.

I doubt I'll end up back there for professional reasons.

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