Re: A bit discouraged
Nursing will be a second career for me (after 20 years in advertising), and a number of my nursing friends (both men and women) attempted to dissuade me from pursuing it. I'd say the pros and cons were about 50:50. Nonetheless, I trusted my gut and decided to go for it. I've had a few second thoughts along the way, but they're more and more rare as I get closer to graduation (next May). I think I made a good choice.
Here's what I've learned about career advice from other nurses: It's important to remember that people go into this profession for a variety of reasons, only some of which relate to the actual nature of nursing work itself. Some entered the profession because their mother or other relative was a nurse, and simply followed in the family footsteps. Others became nurses because nursing paid enough to provide a measure of financial independence sufficient to allow them to move from small towns to a bigger city, emigrate to another country, or achieve other purely practical goals. I've had older nurses tell me that they went into nursing because it was--in the past--one of only a very few career options for women.
My (admittedly limited) experience in my nursing-school practica has shown me that nurses who entered the profession because they were drawn to nursing work itself are generally happy in their jobs. Even the ones who've been doing it for 20 years or more often still have a lot of heart and enthusiasm for what they do. They're the ones who are willing to share their experience with students, spend some of their limited time answering patients' questions or reassuring family members, and they're the ones who continue to learn and grow as nurses. I've been fortunate to work with a few of these nurses during my program, and they've helped confirm my confidence in my decision.
If nursing work appeals to you--both the physical and emotional aspects, both the technical stuff and the 'dirty' work--then I would encourage you to pursue it. But: If you've ambivalent about the work itself and you're approaching nursing as a means to another end, I'd urge you to think twice. You could very well end up like some of the nurses who attempted to discourage you from entering the profession.
One more thing: nursing is huge and varied profession. If med/surg isn't your thing, you might try a specialty practice. I'm currently working as an ESN (employed student nurse) on a cardiac surgery/cardiology ward, and I really enjoy it. The patient load is manageable (4-5 on days, 6-7 on nights; mine is less than that because of my student status) and nurses have quite a lot of autonomy. The working relationship with physicians is very collegial, and there's a lot of respect for nurses' work. It's what I expected nursing work to be like.
As for being asked why I didn't decide to be a doctor, it happens from time to time. It doesn't bother me, though. Perhaps that's because I'm too old (53) to contemplate 8-10 years of med school and residency. I've identified another reason since being in school, though: I've seen what doctors' work looks like, and I prefer nursing work. I spend more time with patients and have had the opportunity to develop some good therapeutic relationships. That's very rewarding for me, and I don't think I'd get the same satisfaction from being a doctor.
'Sorry for the long post, but it sounds like you've got a big decision to make and I hope I've been helpful.
Good luck.
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