Re: Should I quit?
Your post could have been mine, having similar experiences spanning 2+ years only as there are no options in my area to suit the shifts I absolutely need without exception - I would give notice after securing a new position.
Should you decide to tough it out - a couple of suggestions regarding your post:
If a med is unavailable - obtain an order to hold it until pharmacy delivers.
Provide a written response to and get a copy of any write ups.
Keep a detailed journal of any meetings and/or incidents regarding your performance and/or disrespectful treatment including names of any witnesses to these events.
It has been my experience that:
Nurses eat their young.
There will be those who will try to make others look bad so they look good.
When subordinates witness disrespectful treatment by superiors, they tend to follow suit.
There will be some who will dislike you no matter what and for no apparent reason and you may feel the same.
However:
Always treat the newbie as you wish you had been treated.
Rely only on your own good performance, professionalism and integrity, realizing and admitting your mistakes turning them into positive learning experiences.
Treat even those you dislike with courtesy and respect even if they don't return it.
A Story:
I was called into a meeting with the DON and a unit manager after a nurse had reported another nurse treating me with blatant disrespect. I was told that this was unacceptable and instructed to file a grievance when this behavior is exhibited. I calmly replied that if I did so no one including present company would go unscathed nor would I get anything done - adding that I thought I was hired to work not make friends however if I did in the process it would be great. I also told them that if my performance did not meet their standards and if my nursing judgement couldn't be trusted, I didn't understand why the facility continued to employ me and now if I could be excused I had work to do. I was never treated badly by this unit manager again and the DON was eventually fired, reportedly in part for her poor treatment of staff.
Sorry about the looong post. Wishing you the best whatever your decision.
Oh yeah, Shouldn't the ADON know if the resident in your post was or was not in the facility!?!
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