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Jul 25, 2008 12:27 PM

new discouraged LPN

by jbchero

I am 33 and a new LPN graduate of 4 months and can not seem to adjust. I have quit 2 jobs after a day in the same month( 1 a pediatricians office, other hematology office- both understaffed, nasty precepts and crazy patient loads) and am on my third job at a nursing home. I have been on orientation for 4 weeks ( which I know is great) and the facility has been wonderful to me. I feel sick to my stomach every day that i have to go and hate it. I cant figure out if its the whole nursing in general or if its being a new grad. I have a per deim job at a drug clinic and love it, but I am only there 2/3 days a month (is that why I love it?) I am becoming discouraged and feel like maybe I am not cut out in nursing. I have lasted at past jobs before being a nurse for 10 + yrs. Has any new grads experienced the same unsettlement and if yes how long before you found your nich? Thanks for your replies.


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from Jules A
Old Jul 25, 2008, 02:07 PM

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Hi and welcome to our group,
I'm so sorry it has been like this for you. I can't imagine feeling sick before going to work and would be inclined to suggest you quit that job to save yourself and your employer if you can afford to.

Were you joking about liking your per diem job because it is only a few days a month? Do some soul searching and if for whatever reason you really don't want to work very much finding another job probably won't fix things. If not I would either look around for other jobs like that one or see if you can't increase your hours there. Definitely do a job share day or two before starting at a place so you know the vibe and can avoid working for a day and quitting. Wish you well, Jules
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from sisters29
Old Jul 25, 2008, 06:29 PM

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Can you tell me why you hated the clinic jobs, besides the fact that they were overstaffed. I have been working as a nurse for about three weeks and I, like you, hate my job. I was thinking about going to a clinic. It will be a big pay cut but I am tired of being miserable at my present job.
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from jbchero
Old Jul 25, 2008, 09:01 PM

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Thanks for the reply.
I was just joking about only liking to work 2/3 days. Actually I love that job and keep asking them for more hours, but there is a dedicated staff that never calls in. The reason i did not like the two clinic jobs I think because of the way the other nurses were so nasty and did not want to precept me (I understand I have to prove myself, But they out right had me stand there and the PA said the the doctor what the hell is she doing here). So that really knocked my confidence at that position. The Pediatrician was so fast paced I was not ready for the fast turnover of patients and was expected to know everything about peds that first day.
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Old Jul 25, 2008, 09:33 PM

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Nurses eat their young. It's not a myth.

Just hang in there and keep your head high and your mouth shut. It'll get better.
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from star27LPN
Old Jul 26, 2008, 09:27 AM

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hello,

i am a lpn graduate 2006 i feel the same why . i dont think i really want to be a nurse, although i am going back to school for my Rn but its just for the status and hopefully transition into research as a drug safety nurse. i also have personal reasons thats controling my career decisions. good luck
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from k1ngf1sh
Old Jul 27, 2008, 06:52 PM

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Sorry to hear that you hate your job. i feel that being a nurse and enjoying the job has to come from your heart. When you are taking of patients you should be able to think of it lake its your own family. Please give it time and you will find your niche. I worked in the hospital on the med/oncology floor and then to long term care and I love it. I was able to find my niche!!!!!! Godd Luck!
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Old Jul 27, 2008, 07:52 PM

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Thank you for your words to us! This is a life line! Friends in HIGH places!
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Old Jul 28, 2008, 06:42 AM

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I hated being a nurse the first 4-5 months after I graduated. I constantly wondered to myself and aloud if this is really what I wanted to do for the rest of my life. Depression, confusion, and anger settled in for the long haul, until I had an epiphone: I was focusing on the wrong issues in nursing. I was so tied up in the politics and BS on the unit that the pts fell to the wayside. Once I learned to center my concerns and care for my pts and damn the rest, I began to like my job. Now, I can even say I love it! There will always be some issue lurking about trying to ruin my day, but I learned to say, "whatever", and move on. It's so liberating! Anyway, you'll find what will make you happy, and it may not be nursing. Good luck either way, and I hope you find your Mecca.
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Old Jul 29, 2008, 10:17 PM

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Agreed, it's all about the networking and admitting when you do not know the answer (usually start with an apology that helps, "I'm sorry what does that mean, I'm a new nurse." Before long you will be eating your young too.
I found personally that I need to be in a niche to feel needed (we all are needed, just not as much at first when we're green.) It's the co-dependence of nurses I guess. But also you have to love it for your patients (I knew I would give them the best care anywhere) it's the only thing that will keep you from wiping the tears and walking away. You go back because you know "Mr. Jones" is counting on you to be there to discharge him. ("Mr. Jones" is a ficticious name provided to protect iidentity in regard to PHI in compliance with HIPAA regulations.)
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