I was at work one night and a CNA assigned to my hall came in upset. She confided that her husband had just told her (on the way to work) that he is seeing someone on the side. She told me that he was mentally and physically abusive. (And had the bruises to prove it). She has been to the ER, but blown off. She doesn't have the will power to leave, for sake that her kids will blame her. I have told her that it is better to leave and be honest with the kids, rather than stay, because kids can sense love or lack of. She has turned to anti-anxiety meds..which is ironic because she doesn't have the problem. She is a bright, wonderful woman who deserves better.I fear if she stays in the relationship, she will either hurt herself or be hurt tragically. It breaks my heart because she has all the universal signs of abuse. Yet, it seems everyone is looking the other way. I've talked to her until I am blue in the face and gaining no ground.She wants out but can't leave. If that makes any sense. I need help with this one guys, I can't handle this issue on my own.