Top of the morning to you all. A nurse friend sent me this way. I'm a 53 y.o.(female), disabled RN who worked primarily in home care and some nursing homes. Woke up one day realizing my husband is a crack addict. How could I be so stupid? We weren't taught about drugs and addictions when I went to school. Have been to other on line support group that was helpful to a limited degree. What I really need to do is help others, which will help myself. Only nurses eat their young. They did teach us that in college but I am not one of them. Always took extra time with students and new nurses because I love nursing and if we can't help each other how on earth could we help others?