new and looking for help

Moved to the International forum

Because you have taken the NLE then you have to declare it on your application, you only need verification that you have passed from PRC (as far as I am aware) With retrogression there is no rush. Which state do you want to work in apart from California (which we do not recommend for initial licensure) it is better to apply to the state you want to work in.

I would suggest a good read in this and the Philippine forum

Your Aunt is right, don't apply to Ca for initial licensure. You can apply to what ever state you want and remember you have to meet their requiremetns. Once you have your work/immigrant visa and in the US with a SSN you can sort Ca out but be aware may still take a few months as they will more than likely require you to send in your transcripts. Although NCLEX has reciprocity licenses don't and you will still have to meet Ca requirements for foreign trained nurse. (you could start the process for Ca once you know you have a visa but they will not issue a license until you have your SSN)

With retrogression you are looking currently at over 4 years plus so may want to consider another country