i'M LOST WITH NCLEX!

I am all lost now and I haven't even started!! There are so many things that I read here that confuses me more..Please help me I beg you!! I dont know where to start!

I am planning to apply for a licensure exam for U.S. and I dont know how!

I have relatives in NY and CA.
-Would it be possible if a relative can apply for me?
-Would it be advisable to apply in NY or CA is much better?

What would be the fastest waiting time to accomplish the requirements before the actual exam?

THANK YOU SO SO MUCH IN ADVANCE!!!!