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- Jun 24, '12 by caroladybelleI have seen people last over 6 weeks with little PO intake.
As far as O2, it is a comfort measure more than anything, thus I rarely worry whether it will lengthen life or not, as long as it is not causing discomfort.
G-d/mother nature/ our creator has their own timetable for death, and I do not have access to that info. Thus I do not worry about how long and exact time schedules, as life will make a fool out of us. As long as the pt is comfortable and surrounded by he loves, there is little use in trying to predict the unpredictable.
- Jun 24, '12 by aknottedyarnI would be fearful of a G-tube. he has an occult bleed that is not being traumatically influenced by the small amount of po fluids. I would hesitate to put fluids directly into the stomach, even at a slow rate. But that is just me. Not even close to medical info. Just personal hunch.
I would encourage family to gather and share time with him and each other. Actually what ever the timeline it will never be long enough for family members.
God's Peace for the whole family.
- Jun 24, '12 by NRSKarenRNGastrostomy tube is not indicated for someone with GI bleed nor no bowel movement in a month --all indications that peristolisis in GI tract not functioning. After 25+ years with Hospice and palliative homecare those persons who are only taking sips of fluids/ bite of food now and then and who have unresolved family issues/ denying death, will linger longer 6wks-3 months that those who are accepting of death. How do they live: by depleting protein stores within the body continuing to loose weight till skin and bones along with sheer willpower.
This scenerio played out in my own family with Dad's brother just 3 months ago. He would only talk about how he wanted to be in next years fishing tournament, despite metastasis to almost every bone, palliative radiation, fentanyl patch and 40lb weight loss due to not eating just 1-2 bites and minimal fluids x 2 months.
Wife would tell me he's dying, cousins in denial "we can't talk with him as he won't talk with us". The physicians tiptoed around the words "dying process". Spent many hours with cousins giving them words to break the ice and get unsaid words into the open. When I heard he was in ICU on Neo-Synephrine drip as pressure down, refused foods/fluids x 3 days "cause something in throat, can't swallow"; nurses holding morphine "cause pressure down" made the 3 hr trip to see him and facilitated meeting with hospitalist, aunt and myself.
He had always said over the years after grandparents died, " no machines, cremate me when I get too sick". I met with him and we discussed that there was no more currative treatment; instead comfort care could be provided to keep this pain under control and that morphine COULD be given despite low BP to facilitate him being pain free. Hospitalist then chimed in after I broke the ice. Uncles response: " get me out of this hospital so I can see my dog and die at home." 2 days later, he was home on Hospice. Open conversations with my cousins ensued, they rotated hours to help care for him. He had less than 8 oz fluids a day. Oxygen was ordered but he threw off the nasal cannula; family used it only last 2 days. He died 3 weeks later, a few hours after watching a Phillie's baseball game when HE was ready.
My best advice is to help facilitate conversation between family and hospice, seek clarification if something bothers you and trust your gut. Sending you strength to get through the coming days.Last edit by NRSKarenRN on Jun 25, '12
- Jun 25, '12 by aknottedyarnThank you for sharing this story, Karen. It adds another dimension to this discussion. Great points.
- Jun 25, '12 by Esme12Quote from griffinchetNRSKaren. thanks for sharing such a personal story.I wouldn't call the nurse inexperienced, as there have been several cases I have attended where the individual has sustained, although comatose was present, with no nutritional intake. The body has a way of metabolizing fat reserves( i.e. glycogen, adipose, etc.) in order to obtain nutrition.
I would definitely raise an eyebrow to the statement that oxygen will likely delay your father in law's demise. If anything, if he is hemorrhaging in a unspecific location it's impossible to determine his life expectancy. Oxygen will have little effect if the BP is below the normal range, what's going to transport this oxygen? But, we all know the brain and heart are the first to receive the limited supply we may carry. I would urge you to encourage your father in law, if it means that much, to opt for a G-tube. Life expectancy is very bleak at this moment.
Besides the quality of life issue........this patient doesn't seem like a candidate with his hx of "about 3 L of fluid sitting in his stomach" and a ""bleed" somewhere inside they cannot find and he is not willing/able to go through surgery to find it" that has required a transfusion....this probably isn't a viable option and boarders on medical advice.
- Jun 25, '12 by tewdlesI find that when families ask hospice staff "how long" they often receive information that is troubling to them. In this instance it is troubling because it seems too long.
The bottom line is that we do not know beyond certainty how long a patient will live. I once had a young woman with no measurable BP survive for 48hours. I have cared for many people who took nothing PO and received a few oz/day of fluids per GTube in form of meds and flush who then continued to live longer than one might expect...weeks to more than a month. Shoot, we even see renal failure dialysis patients stop treatment only to start making urine again. We just cannot predict, with good results, what a timeline for death will be.
I would agree that the nurse may have been inexperienced given that she gave you any type of a guesstimate on your first visit. I typically teach staff to provide a disclaimer about the validity or accuracy of our crystal balls, most are made in china and are not reliable for US citizens.
I hope that your granddad is comfortable and that his wishes for end of life are honored.
- Jun 27, '12 by GinaRN1979I tell my patient's Families to look at the pamphlet we provide that has a breakdown of symptoms to expect over the patient's decline. This way they can think about it and talk to me about some of the things their loved on is already experiencing. I tell them this is general guideline and it does not mean your loved on will have all these symptoms at the time of death. I hope every hospice has a tool like this the nurses and IDT can all use the same language. I tell them what could happen to the patient based on Pt history and Primary hospice diagnosis. It's also a good point that Patients can linger when they have unfinished business. Giving the family the okay to tell the patient they will miss him and will be okay without him is important. Use your team... Social workers & pastoral care when family is receptive. Ask the hospice if you can have a family meeting with the nurse social work and PC.
- Jun 28, '12 by MunchEveryone is different and the body goes to extremes to survive. My father was placed on hospice after being treated for pancreatic cancer for a whopping three months. My father actually stopped eating before he was placed on hospice and stopped drinking not long after that. He died three weeks after he was placed on hospice and didn't have a morsel of food. When he died he was 6'1 and got down to about 130lbs. He literally looked like a skeleton with skin draped over his bones.
- Jul 1, '12 by okiedivaI had a patient that had NO food/ drink or IV fluids and lived for 3 1/2 weeks.