I work agency usually in PCU/med-surg ( previous ICU experience as well) Last night I was asked to care for an at home hospice patient and I agreed, although I have never done it before. I have always like the ideals of hospice nursing , allowing people to die at home in comfort and dignity.
The patient was just starting "continuous nursing"- so at rare moments he was somewhat cognizant and orientedx2, . He wasn't quite close to dying ( at least not on my shift) but my discomfort comes from --- did I do enough to keep him comfortable? I hope so , but coming from a hospital perspective where I want to keep people pain free, but not entirely "snowed" (unless they are ventilated, of course, different idea) I am not so sure. I did give ativan and morphine as ordered, and he would alternate between sleeping/snoring for awhile then become slightly wakeful with moaning and shifting around a bit.
I felt kind of bad because the oncoming nurse had a lot of experience and immediately said he looked very uncomfortable. He was in the wakeful stage, moaning a bit and shifting a little. She showed me a "comfort box" which had suppositories of haldol/ ativan / ? and I helped her insert one before I left.
How do I know the patient is comfortable enough without me assisting in his death by over medicating so he stops breathing?
Any resources I can find for guidelines? Lawsuits from being overmedicated? Does it vary from family to family or does nearly every family want to see their loved one absolutely still, unresponsive and "peaceful" looking ?

Thanks for any help and my future patients/families thank you as well...
Tammy
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