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Journeying East : Conversations of Aging and Dying by Victoria Dimidjian I saw a reference to it on the growthhouse site and it looks really interesting.... Read More


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    Quote from doodlemom
    Even in the best nursing homes, patients are never nurtured to the extent that they are in a home environment. Much of the care that we give may not be symptom management but emotional and spiritual support, as well as disease process teaching to the family. I have had many family members cry on my shoulder because they feel so guilty about having to place Mom in a nursing home.
    i certainly don't profess to have the exposure to ltc facilities as your do, doodlemom.
    the ones i have visited, these facilities were indeed a home environment. they received alot of emotional/spiritual support from nsg staff.
    granted, these were residents who didn't have family; maybe an occasional sibling.
    the residents who did have devoted family members, would often cry on the shoulders of the ltc nurses, expressing inconsolable guilt about ltc placement.

    i am certainly not rubberstamping that all of the better run facilities, do not need hospice services.
    i'm just very pleased to report that there are some top-notch snf facilities, where all of a residents' needs are met, and who are content to call home.
    and among these residents, there will be some who don't necessitate hospice services.

    leslie
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    indigo girl

    I never heard of Angela Browne-Miller… but then I can’t read. I will check to see if her stuff is on tape. From what you say it sounds a lot like mine, so now I am curious. Thanks.

    One of my theories is that we are all connected... that there is a collective consciousness. So when "new" ideas pop up they usually do so pretty much simultaneously, all over the place... as opposed to in a linear fashion; i.e. one person has an idea and it gets passed to another and then another etc. A quantum physicist may get an idea and a couple of nurses in Seattle get the same idea and an author in Timbuktu gets the same idea... and who knows, maybe some old coot in the desert gets the same idea... all more-or-less at the same time. And none of them ever heard of each other (until after the fact.) Go figure! How do you explain that?
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    indigo girl

    I never heard of Angela Browne-Miller… but then I can’t read. I will check to see if her stuff is on tape. From what you say it sounds a lot like mine, so now I am curious. Thanks.

    One of my theories is that we are all connected... that there is a collective consciousness. So when "new" ideas pop up they usually do so pretty much simultaneously, all over the place... as opposed to in a linear fashion; i.e. one person has an idea and it gets passed to another and then another etc. A quantum physicist may get an idea and a couple of nurses in Seattle get the same idea and an author in Timbuktu gets the same idea... and who knows, maybe some old coot in the desert gets the same idea... all more-or-less at the same time. And none of them ever heard of each other (until after the fact.) Go figure! How do you explain that?
    Well, you are in good company with Jung (the collective unconscious) and Rupert Sheldrake (the hundredth monkey effect and morphic resonance). Many in the bioenergetics community believe in field theory. And of course, many do not.

    My simple belief is that everything is energy including us. In this life, our bodies are are a denser, more slower moving (?) form of energy. When the essence of what we are, leaves the body behind, we are dealing with a higher, more sublime energy. But, we still exist, just not here.

    I look forward to reading your work.
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    Finall I can thank all who have replied to my question about rural hospice. It is the nuts and bolts I need since the place I am moving is trying to start their hospice and I am concerned re: the problems they will have because the advantage is definitely to the urban guys. Knowing the intricacies will help. I am moving to the country as a gun refugee from California, so the firearms issue is no problem for me. I just want to be the best help I can be to those good folks.:spin:
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    river1951…

    I wish you all the luck in the world. I do wonder how the price of gas will affect rural hospices. It would seem prudent to make the most of each visit; i.e. teaching, delivery of equipment & meds etc. all in one shot. Take the SW with you and do both initial assessments… heck take the Chaplain too and make it a day. Fewer, but longer visits would probably be good.

    Another thing that strikes me as being potentially very helpful in the rural setting is technology… good ol’ email… a great way to communicate, especially if you have a wireless laptop connecting you to your clients and office data. Small websites are easy to set up… if you have host space and some web building software. When people need information right away I just whip up a temporary website for them… it takes about ten minutes. Just a thought.

    Yea… one of my favorite pastimes used to be long range target shooting with black powder cartridge rifles (like in Quigley Down Under.) But when my vision went, that went with it.

    indigogirl…

    I never studied Jung, but have heard of some of his theories. I remember the 100th monkey thing… that was a few years back… never read the book but understood the concept (I think.) You sound quite well educated.

    I wonder… I think in terms of everything being either consciousness itself, or a manifestation of consciousness. As I ponder, I suppose energy could be another manifestation of consciousness. Hm-m-m.

    The great difficulty with consciousness of course, is that we simply do not know what it is. We have it, we are in it, but are virtually clueless as to what it is. Energy, on the other hand, can be measured… quantified & qualified… at least at its lower frequency levels here on the physical plane. Hm-m-m.

    Much to ponder… much to ponder.
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    Interesting stuff... I am new to hospice, my primary physician roped me in, she is the Medial Director of a hospice that needed Rn's. I was re-entering the field(topic for another interesting thread...) and I am so glad, I believe it was a God shot, because i wanted a job in Case Mngmt, there is no school or refresher for such a vocation, and I had just finally given my request to God, asking that he matches me and my gifts and what i can offer the field with someone who could benefit from having me. and I found Hospice and i LOVe it!! I used to drag myself to work at the Hospital, found it rewarding but just hard to get psyched up for every day. Today, I don't even notice the time and it is not a burden to get going each morning, and there is a new adventure each day!!! I IMMEDIATELY questioned my role in the SNF, kinda looking around like "does any one else wonder what i am wondering?" But as I am becoming a Hospce Nurse, and getting past all the practical aspects, schedule, papers, idt... time sheets... now I can dig in and feel I am really making a difference in these peoples lives, the lady down the hall who, while loved by her SNF staff, is quite forgotten by the world and I get to know her and she recognizes me in her demented way and the staff see the connection, and when they need something for one of our Hospice patients, they know they can ask me or my LVN and we get on it!!! and we meet with their greiving spouses and frustrated children and advocate for the hospice patient and support the family and on on on on on... Phew... so for the most part we are effective and i feel confident as a steward of the taxpayers money that I am providing a life helping service...HOWEVER... I am also the one who creates and qualifies the re-certs that the medical director signs and for this I am responsible also... I am currently reviewing several of my Dementia cases that have been on (I feel) tooooo long and need to decide to recommend that a few revoke and sign on when they truly decline. The disease processes are not the same for everybody... my main concern is the overuse and potential mis-use of the DEMENTIA diagnoses.
    Nurse Leslie
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    Quote from RNDYN2CU
    Interesting stuff... I am new to hospice, my primary physician roped me in, she is the Medial Director of a hospice that needed Rn's. I was re-entering the field(topic for another interesting thread...) and I am so glad, I believe it was a God shot, because i wanted a job in Case Mngmt, there is no school or refresher for such a vocation, and I had just finally given my request to God, asking that he matches me and my gifts and what i can offer the field with someone who could benefit from having me. and I found Hospice and i LOVe it!! I used to drag myself to work at the Hospital, found it rewarding but just hard to get psyched up for every day. Today, I don't even notice the time and it is not a burden to get going each morning, and there is a new adventure each day!!! I IMMEDIATELY questioned my role in the SNF, kinda looking around like "does any one else wonder what i am wondering?" But as I am becoming a Hospce Nurse, and getting past all the practical aspects, schedule, papers, idt... time sheets... now I can dig in and feel I am really making a difference in these peoples lives, the lady down the hall who, while loved by her SNF staff, is quite forgotten by the world and I get to know her and she recognizes me in her demented way and the staff see the connection, and when they need something for one of our Hospice patients, they know they can ask me or my LVN and we get on it!!! and we meet with their greiving spouses and frustrated children and advocate for the hospice patient and support the family and on on on on on... Phew... so for the most part we are effective and i feel confident as a steward of the taxpayers money that I am providing a life helping service...HOWEVER... I am also the one who creates and qualifies the re-certs that the medical director signs and for this I am responsible also... I am currently reviewing several of my Dementia cases that have been on (I feel) tooooo long and need to decide to recommend that a few revoke and sign on when they truly decline. The disease processes are not the same for everybody... my main concern is the overuse and potential mis-use of the DEMENTIA diagnoses.
    Nurse Leslie
    It sounds like the job is a great fit for you. When I was on staff as a unit manager in LTC, I worked with one particular hospice nurse, and her staff.
    It was a wonderful experience. (You remind me of her, and that's a compliment.) It was a great relationship. I felt that patients and their families were getting what they needed, and both of our staffs supported each other.
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    The mega corporate hospices - Vitas, Odyssey, Vistacare, all do about 80% of their business in nursing homes where the length of stay is much longer. They mostly invest their marketing dollars in the nursing facilities. They hire nursing home medical directors to be their medical directors which gets them more patients at an earlier time. All of the mega hospices tell you that they do charity care and they do, but this is very limited because patients in nursing facilities are 100% funded.[/QUOTE]

    I just wanted to take the opportunity to go on record since I work for one of these "mega hospices". The 80% statement is not even close to correct. I would say that if you averaged the nursing home among all of our programs, you might get a figure of 20-30%. The majority of our patients are at home. I would be interested to know where the 80% figure came from.

    It seems that there is a prevailing opinion that for profit hospices are "bad" and not for profit hospice are "good". My experience with a for profit has been very positive. I have never found the company to be unethical or unwilling to take the tough patients. If your prognosis is less than 6 months, then you are eligible for service whatever treaments you may be receiving. That means the expensive patients on vents,TPN,radiation, etc...
    Now, neither a for profit or not for profit hospice could survive if all patients on service were this complex. That's why you have a balanced approach to marketing that assures that you have enough profitable patients, so that you can provide care to those that are not profitable.

    Our "mega hospice" has a heart and does the right thing by it's patients and families. I can't speak for all of the large companies but please know that there are some large companies who provide equal or better care than some non profits. It is all in how the programs are managed.
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    Its good to hear that Bob!


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