Re: what do spouses do? Originally Posted by The Little Greek
My husband and I discussed this at great length before I commissioned. He has a career that affords him flexibility with moving so he can get a job just about anywhere. We have also discussed the possibility that he will have to be a stay-at-home dad if the need arises. In areas that are highly populated by military employers are quite used to the process of losing and hiring new people. Granted, if your husband is in a field that limits his prospects you should be prepared that finding a new job where you get stationed may not be a possibility.
Most definitely.
I am newly commissioned Active duty.....and my husband has a PhD in a very obscure limited field. He has applied for "federal jobs" for the last 12 months with no success. Basically, he has forfeited his career for mine. We both understand this. It is difficult because of the economy, luckily Tx has a better economy than other places. But, he has taken 2/3rds pay cut to work here, compared to when we lived in an area where he had connections in his industry. And he has to work in a completely different field......
the military is a sacrifice. The "spouses help" is very limited........
I still love my choice of serving, but you should be informed of the hardship for spouses that work.
good luck
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