Re: Soon to be RN in need of some guidance
I'm in nursing school as well but I've also served in the USAF for 4 1/2 years as an officer. It's important to keep in mind that being a military nurse means being a military officer as well which involves other duties completely unrelated to nursing. You will have leadership roles involving direct supervision of enlisted personnel and other officers (eventually) and the military will expect you to be a professional, effective leader just like every other officer.
Having said that, I don't know first hand what extra duties a nurse will have outside of nursing. But there's tons of good information on this site from nurses currently serving in the military.
Being laid back shouldn't cause you problems (it can be an effective leadership style) but being a self-described pacifist may. As a military nurse you could find yourself in direct support of combat missions where fighting and dying occur. That's something you'll have to reconcile with yourself.
Congrats on seeking information before making any decisions. Like I said, there's tons of good info on this site for all branches, boot camp, life of a military nurse, military duties, etc.
Best of luck!
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