Re: What is normal / typical?
add my name to the list of answers advising you to report and consider a better facility. We too try to limit diapers to 3 a day (Q8H) and allow a 4th for PRN/BM. BUT, we stock multiple sizes and if a pt needs more 3, it is allowed. Esp. a pt who is trying to care for herself, this should be encouraged and remind the staff how much they save in staff time by her self-care and how much is wasted in laundry and changing by her current situation of dirtying her entire room.
This is inhumane ( abuse, neglect etc) and I am surprised that the SW doesn't have what to say about this.
While writing a letter to the local paper (even anonymously) might make you feel better in the short run, it can make things uncomfortable in the LTC should you decide to keep her there, and the truth is there is little they can do,
Better to report it to the proper authorities who CAN actually help and Heaven Help Them if the staff start treating your Mom differently because of the report, as then you will report them to the police etc. If you need help finding phone numbers, ask the SW or check on line for your states hotline.
I am SO sorry your Mom and you have to deal with this, not all facilities are like this although budget cutting measures would like us to be!!
GOOD LUCK!
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