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| No. 41 |
Mar 22, 2009, 10:09 AM
Re: What do you LOVE about LTC/N.H.?
You either like / love working with demanding old people and their families or you don't. Personally, every shift I work, I get something out of being there. The shifts I just don't want to do, those are the shifts that someone asks me to tuck them in and...oh, can I have a hug too?...those times melt me. Here are people that, for the most part, have worked all their lives, have lost their people through death usually, and just want to feel a good heart near them. I do agency nursing, I only do LTC. I have adopted grandparents around me every shift I work, and sometimes I am so touched by them I could burst. In most cases, their annoying families don't know how to care for them but to be a squeaky wheel. To those PIA's I just deal with them as someone's daughter and granddaughter, and remind them that I understand their concerns and whatever I can do for their loved one is what I am there to do. That's my job.
In some cases, control freaks can just be PIA's. I try to remember that I'll be them soon...For better or worse, I'd hope someone will be there to speak for me too. Aside from all the politics and paperwork is a heart you need to share, jokes you need to have laughed at, hugs that need to be given....none of these people were perfect when they were younger, and they are not close to perfect now, but they do need you. They hate needing you, but if you're there for them they'll love having you around, even the tough ones.
| | No. 42 |
Mar 22, 2009, 12:51 PM
Re: What do you LOVE about LTC/N.H.?
This is actually my first time posting (I've been lurking for like a year, lol!) and I am so glad I found this thread! I am an LPN student who is starting clinicals next week at a LTC facility (most likely in a NH, I'll find out Monday!) and I've been so nervous about it...I went into this experience 100% certain that I did NOT want to work in geriatrics and that ER nursing was where I ultimately wanted to land...but just from lurking on allnurses and reading the posts on this forum (and on the ER nursing forum for that matter!) I'm starting to get the feeling that LTC/NH might actually be a better fit for me... It takes a special kind of person to take on these kinds of challenges every day and my hat's off to all of you who have made this your life's work...to the OP, being a student myself I can't offer much advice but I can say that I am also hoping to continue my education as far as I can and I feel like whatever area is your "calling" is what you should pursue. One of my professors is working on her doctorate in nursing and says that she doesn't want to work anywhere else but in geriatrics  Good luck!
| | No. 44 |
Apr 01, 2009, 11:14 AM
Re: What do you LOVE about LTC/N.H.?
I work in LTC-- on a skilled unit, actually. I am a RN with my BSN. I started in a hospital-- excellent for the extensive orientation, but my heart was never in it for many reasons.
What do I love about LTC? Well, I love that my patients are not tethered to about 10 different IV's/drains (I'm not exaggerating either). Dementia I can handle. Dementia or delirium with 4 hemovacs, a central line, a foley, a flexiflow feeding tube, telemetry, and a trach... well - that's another thing.
I love getting to know the families. For the most part I have encountered much more kindness and understanding than demanding people. To the poster who said don't do it because you're going to have demanding family members and patients-- News flash-- This is not specific to LTC. I encountered more attitude in the hospital-- not because the family and patients were bad people. I just think they were under a lot of stress with the nture of the type of patient I took care of. Anyway, every day my faith in the goodness of people is reaffirmed at this job.
I really do like my coworkers. I don't know the shift to shift hostility is just not there like it was in the hospital. I know I am lucky as far as CNAs goes, but I love the aides. They are so much more grateful for any ADL assistance I give than aides were in the hospital.
Most of all, I do love the fact that I get to know my patients-- there is so much more continuity with patients.
Hospitals are big. (I worked at an academic medical center). They're just so impersonal. They're not for me. I like going in to work and smiling at my coworkers, and have them smile back at me.
| | No. 45 |
Apr 01, 2009, 11:20 AM
Re: What do you LOVE about LTC/N.H.? Originally Posted by traumaRUs Okay - let's try to stay to the topic of what is positive in LTC nursing.
I'll go next: I don't work in LTC per se, but rather work in nephrology. With the advances in dialysis, people are living longer and having better lives. Here's some examples:
- 85 y/o gentleman, used to be a policeman. Still volunteers 4 hours twice a week at our local police station.
- 88 y/o lady who lives with her family continues to help out by cleaning house, doing laundry and watching children.
- 90 y/o retired farmer still mows his own lawn.
And there are many more. The elderly have much to offer us if we only listen!
Oh yes, I totally agree here. I'm glad you brought this up! i love asking my patients about their lives. And I love the fact that most are not wedded to cell phones!!!! They seem to have more ability to entertain themsleves than I imagine our generation will.
| | No. 46 |
Apr 05, 2009, 01:58 PM
Re: What do you LOVE about LTC/N.H.?
What specialty a nurse chooses is a personal choice.
| | No. 47 |
Apr 24, 2009, 04:59 AM
Re: What do you LOVE about LTC/N.H.?
What a Godsend this post has been for me! Just what I was looking for. After a long career in Nursing i finally crashed & burned, said to hell with this, and took a few years off working altogether, then took a job as a dishwasher in a casino. But, the love of Nursing never really died, and next week I start my new job in an LTC facility around the corner. To say that I've been a little scared is an understatement! This post, and all the others I read today, brought my fears to a realistic level, bolstered my strength and sharpened my wit. You didn't scare me away, you made me eager to roll up my sleeves and dig in again. I miss, more than anything, laughing with my 'sisters and brothers'.
I miss that graveyard humor, cleaning up the most awful messes then wolfing down bad pizza in the lunchroom while talking shop. I miss the compassion, i miss the science, I miss the mysteries. All of you have helped me feel good about my decision and all of you will keep me afloat. God bless you all.
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