Re: Should I take this job???
I think your last line says it all ...... "I just can't keep going on like this..." If you really cannot keep going, then you should leave. Eventually, your unhappiness will show up in the work you do (IMHO). We can only fake it so long.
One practical thing I would do if I were you is to check out private health insurance costs since you will be losing this benefit. If you are healthy and don't have ongoing issues that require regular doctor visits, you can opt for insurance to just cover major medical. It's not horribly expensive, from what I've found.
I would guess that since you "LOVE" your co-workers and residents at your current facility, you will fall in love again with those at the new facility. That is what is great about nursing; anywhere you go, you can make a difference!
Best of luck in your decision!
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