Great - 9 months to go and I may have to quit...

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So, I have 9 more months 'til I'm a nurse and can make my own $$ and very possibly leave my alcoholic husband.

I'm really excited and hoping these last 9 months will fly by & I'll be on my way to a better life for my children and myself.

Because we have 7 kids, I've been "randomly" chosen all semesters excpet for 1 by the FAFSA people to be "reviewed" before they will approve my financial aid and loans. From what I've been told, the 7 kids issue automatically triggers a review. Its getting to be a pain in the butt and I can hardly see how its random. But, its fairly easy to get through, just extra stuff that annoys me to have to waste my time to deal with.

So, again, about 3 weeks ago I get the letter from my schools financial aid dept saying that I've been chosen for review. Big surprise there.

I gather my paperwork, tax forms, ect and drive to my school 45 mins away and stand in the darned financial aid line for over an hour. Give them my papers, ect and ask for my book voucher.

I'm told to come back in 4 weeks for my voucher, thats when my review will be processed. Ummm.....school starts in 2 days.....I have almost 400.00 in books to buy. We have assignments from day 1 of classes, I know this because we already have our day to day schedules.

Seems the school changed the way they do things and now don't give out vouchers for books (extending credit to you in the school bookstore - you sign a form saying that if financial aid doesnt come through, you owe the school $$). Thats the way its been for the 3 years I've been a student there.

So, I'm on my own. I don't have $400.00 I won't have $400.00 anytime soon.

I don't have any credit cards. I don't have family that will help. Heck, I'm getting so desperate that I would have gone and written a bad check for my books & paid the check off when my $$ came in, if my husband hadn't gotten our account closed recently. :madface:

School starts in less than 2 days!!! I have no books!!!

I called and spoke to a financial aid manager and basically, I'm just plain old S.O.L.

I'm really mad that they changed the way they handeled this with no warning at all. :angryfire

If I would have had some warning, I could have probably tucked away some money for some of the books at least.

I emailed my instructors and there isn't anything they can do to help. To make it worse, I was trying to find them used but the books I need this semester look to all be new editions, so nothing is available used at a good used price. I did find one but after shipping, it would be the same as if I got it at the bookstore.

I am soooooo discouraged. I can't think of any alternative than to drop out of the program. I can do that, but there are no guarantees that a seat will reopen for me in the program.

I know there isnt much anyone can say, I guess I just needed to vent. Thanks for listening.

I know how difficult it is to ANYTHNG when you have children, but I wouldln't give up. You've already gotten some great ideas, here's two more.

-- How about a yard sale? Isn't there something in the house you could sell. You could even get your older kids to put it together.

-- While they shut you down at the financial aid office, many schools offer emergency loans to students. I would call the school again and ask about that specifically.

Specializes in RN, Cardiac Step Down/Tele Unit.

The squeaky wheel gets the oil - call up the financial aid office/nursing director/dean and go on a polite tirade about how they changed the rules with no notice. Tell them you may have to drop out - believe me - they want your money too much to let that happen! And I agree that borrowing/copying pages from classmates books can help get you through this tough spot. You have come this far, please don't quit now! Nursing needs you as much as you need it!!!

Steph,

List the books that you need here...maybe someone reading this thread can help you out.

Hi, quick update...

I spoke with the "head" of financial aid today. The problem is that the school moved away from using their own bookstore to contracting through Barnes and Noble, they have converted our school bookstore into one owned (?) and run by B&N. Barnes and Noble would not agree to using book vouchers.

There is no promisary note I can sign, there is no "emergency" funds available to students. Basically in the schools eyes, I am just S.O.L.

I even said "well, I very well may have to drop out. I'm in the nursing program and can't just do without books." All I got was an "I'm sorry. Maybe you could reapply at a later date."

I'm going to ask either my instructors tomorrow or a classmate to copy the pages I'm going to be needing in the near future. Today was kind of chaotic being the first day and all.

I had to buy my $61 nurses kit today since we are starting to use them already tomorrow during an all day lab for review before we start clinicals on Thursday and we each have to have our own. There was no way around that, so I had to use our grocery money and now get to listen to whiney kids complaining about Kraft mac and cheese for dinner for the next 4 nights :uhoh3:

I can make up for a week of crappy nutrition in my kids, can't I?

Anyhow, thanks for your support. Why didn't I think of the copying idea???

Steph,

List the books that you need here...maybe someone reading this thread can help you out.

Well, okay....feel kind of funny about it.....

Introductory Medical Surgical Nursing (2006) - Timby & Smith 9th edition

& accompanying study guide workbook

(text used for both Phar II & Nursing II)

Broadribb's Introductory Pediatric Nursing - Hatfield (2003) 6th ed.

Nursing Diagnosis Handbook, A Guide to Planning Care -Ackley, Betty & Ladwig

(2006) 7th ed.

Physical Exam & Health Assessment Pocket Companion

Maternity Nursing, An Introductory Text - Gloria Leifer (2005) 9th ed.

A Topical Approach to Life-span Development - Santrock, 2nd or 3rd edition

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Thankfully, we re reusing most of our books from last semester for Pharm II and a bit for Nursing II.

The ones in bold are the ones I need immediately. I did purchase my nurses kit today for lab tomorrow, so thats $61.00 to cross off my list.

Specializes in Cardiac/ED.

Another suggestion is try and borrow the books, I know that you said that they are all new editions (such a scam, I have been stuck with older editions that the book store won't buy back) but I am sure the older editions would get you by. You just have to work a little harder to find the info in the book because it will not match the reading list.

Specializes in Cardiac/ED.

I might have the Life span book, in my program its a pre req. I might have sold it back but I will look...thats an expensive book too! I feel your pain. P

Specializes in Med/Surg <1; Epic Certified <1.

I just want to say I feel your pain....my husband has the crappiest financial handling skills I know of. I am trying to work my way through school (I just started today!) and keep my sanity while doing what I can to help our son who also just started a state university today. My husband has a hissy if I even mention that OUR son may need some money for something. It's a long stupid story, so I won't bore you with the details....

But I hope you can get this figured out....there's nothing worse than being in a bad marriage; luckily my kids are now almost all grown, and I have heard them say many times that I need to be getting out. I hope you can do the same and that you can work this book issue out. My heart breaks for you...

Best wishes....

Specializes in Telemetry & Obs.

Well, crud!! I just looked and my program didn't use a single one of those texts :(

I did have the care plan book, but gave it to a friend that's just starting our program.

:( :( :(

Our school actually has a leanding library and the teachers also have copies of the books and let us borrow them. It wouldn't hurt to ask. Good luck

Specializes in Nephrology, Cardiology, ER, ICU.

Our school had all the books in the library and they could be checked out - would that work.

Please don't drop out.

Specializes in Cardiac/ED.

Sorry I must have sold back the Santrock Life span book. Good luck, and don't give up.

Another suggestion, contact BandN corporate and see what pans out. Let em know whats goin' on. You might get help from higher up. P

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