Would you marry any medical professional

If the person and I are a great mix, sure I would. I met my husband at my job, but he does not work in nursing...we have peace officers that work for our corporation. I used to work in psych ER as an aide, and first laid eyes on my husband to be when he came into our area to sign off on his officer's logbooks. I remember looking at him and saying to myself "Damn, that is one handsome man!". The feeling was mutual, he was attracted to me as well, but it took close to two years because we were both still involved with someone else and were not the type to cheat. My husband is perfect to me in every way (well, not everything...), but we are very compatible in the ways that count the most. The advantage is that we do work for the same place, but not in the same department or shift, so, we have very interesting talks when we are home together because we see things from different perspectives. Leads to lively conversations and debates.

Another positive side of it is that his sister is an RN, an administrator at one of our sister hospitals, so, when I attended nursing school, he was very familiar with the drill, knew when to stay out of my way and was extremely supportive. Heaven forbid if something were to happen where I was single again, the next guy would have very heavy shoes to fill and I doubt it would be easy.

My sister's 7 years younger than me, also has never been married, and her Deal Breaker Numero Uno is children. That surprised me because she's always wanted to be a mom and cannot have children of her own. I don't think it's so much the children as having to deal with the ex and her (or his, if it's a man marrying a woman with kids) family, which can be problematic and I understand is a common reason why second or later marriages fail - and this includes marriages where the bio parent died.

Thing is, so often when a man marries a woman with kids and the "bonus grandchildren" are embraced by the extended family, the biodad isn't in the picture, nor is his family even if they were married for many years, so that isn't an issue. One often wonders, however, how much of that was the mom's doing, and it wasn't justified, which doesn't make a lot of sense to me when women who have sons do it. How would they like it if he got divorced and the scales were tipped more in her direction, and they lost their grandkids just for being related to him? Happens all the time.

Sorry, You are absolutely safe from me. I looked at your profile and you have a very significant item that makes you completely unsuitable for me. See. You are safe as can be.