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No. 20
Old Oct 01, 2008, 07:08 PM

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Originally Posted by StudentNurseBean View Post
There is a "Universal Law", called The Law of Attraction. This law is working constantly with everyone and everything at every single second through time. It talks about what you think is what you will attract. Ie. Birds of the same feather, flock together. Like attracts like, etc.

Positive things come to those who think positive things will happen. It is proven, over and over and over again through this universal law.

For some, it might be hard to understand, but if you research it and start slowly putting it into play, you will see that it works. As bizarre as it sounds, it works. I've tried and am continually trying to play my life game with it. So far, so good

There's a book and movie called "The Secret" which talks in detail about it. Very interesting!!

The power of positive thinking works and if it doesn't, it is because there is that little voice somewhere in the back of your mind whispering "failing" words to you.

Check out the movie, or read the book
Nurse430+yrs:
Regarding your quote: NO it is not a pathetic attempt to explain away the "failure" of non traditional medicine. Frankly there have been more killed by traditional medicine than non-traditional medicine.

WE/YOU/I do NOT truly KNOW what is going on within another's soul/being etc. They may profess to you on the outside "they" want to live, while on the inside there IS that "death" "transition" wish; we have no way of measuring it or even assessing it. We do know it is there within each of us.

My mother verbalized the wish to live; but yet still held hatred and resentment toward others; these are two polar ideas/ideals and two polar entities cannot occupy the SAME space at the same time; ONE has to take over--the one with most power wins. In this case she chose to give the power over to the hatred and resentment; this manifested itself into Cancer (reseachers have even tracked Cancer events to hurts/losses and unforgiveness that has never been resolved) .So she gave the power to the Cancer that took her; the cancer in her mind and heart that she couldn't let go of.

There IS a lot to the Power of the Spoken Word, The Power of Belief, The Law of Attraction; ...as nurses we NEED to be aware and knowledgable of these areas. Whether or not you choose to believe them yourself...it is important to know about when we are caring for others.
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No. 21
from CityKat
Old Oct 02, 2008, 12:47 AM

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You're so dead on! If you think about disease, it will manifest itself within. If you believe with dismay and unhappiness, this too, will manifest itself. I believe we can will ourselves to death; yet we can also fight disease from within.

The mind is amazing!
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No. 22
from mama_d
Old Oct 02, 2008, 02:09 AM

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I voted "not sure"....although I do think that negative thought processes can surely interfere with the healing process, I'm not sure that the opposite holds true.

But I'm not in my normal state now, I'm post-op and no matter how much positive thinking I've done every time I'm in the bathroom, I still got a freaking ileus. And my hubby's done everything but break out the pom-poms to encourage everything to "wake up" all the way.
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No. 23
from Jules A
Old Oct 06, 2008, 02:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Patti SW View Post
Do you think a negative thought would be better?
I wouldn't advocate negative thought but I do think there are times when being realistic leads to acceptance and closure which imo is healthier than clinging to hope despite the facts especially in the face of a terminal diagnosis.
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No. 24
Old Oct 07, 2008, 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Jules A View Post
I wouldn't advocate negative thought but I do think there are times when being realistic leads to acceptance and closure which imo is healthier than clinging to hope despite the facts especially in the face of a terminal diagnosis.
Nurse430+yrs:
The challenge and the problem is - our medical "advancements" do not for the most part include metaphysical, spiritual or emotional "prescriptions".

In the spiritual area--the "treatment " is generally based upon traditional religion--which a lot of times puts illness in terms of "suffering" "punishment" from God. Or "something" one must endure.

In the area of the metaphysical and emotions: "We" (people in general) have gotten so far away from their "inner knowledge" "self healing powers" that we depend WAY too much on drugs, doctors etc. [Part of this is due to the fact we are constantly bombarded by advertisements for illnesses and drugs to treat them].

Given these factors: when one decides to accept the "realistic medical diagnosis---he/she does NOT have the complete picture and does not have full knowledge...

We must be VERY careful in encouraging others and perhaps even ourselves to "accept" the supposed inevitable sure "death diagnoses"....numerous studies have proven the mind and spirit CAN heal the body. There have been numerous documented cases of "miracles".

However, IF one has truly "bought into"...the "death diagnosis"..whatever that may be ---AND chooses to "give up hope"...then it's their choice.
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No. 25
from Jules A
Old Oct 07, 2008, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by nurse430+yrs View Post
My mother verbalized the wish to live; but yet still held hatred and resentment toward others; these are two polar ideas/ideals and two polar entities cannot occupy the SAME space at the same time; ONE has to take over--the one with most power wins. In this case she chose to give the power over to the hatred and resentment; this manifested itself into Cancer (reseachers have even tracked Cancer events to hurts/losses and unforgiveness that has never been resolved) .So she gave the power to the Cancer that took her; the cancer in her mind and heart that she couldn't let go of.
It really makes me sad to read this. I have seen many strong, positive, productive, happy people attempt to fight cancer and lose. Saying they didn't have the will or attitude to cure themselves would be blaming the victim. There have also been scores of nasty, resentful, lazy, hateful people that have lived long, physically healthy lives so imo sometimes a body is just a body, imo.
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No. 26
Old Oct 07, 2008, 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Jules A View Post
It really makes me sad to read this. I have seen many strong, positive, productive, happy people attempt to fight cancer and lose. Saying they didn't have the will or attitude to cure themselves would be blaming the victim. There have also been scores of nasty, resentful, lazy, hateful people that have lived long, physically healthy lives so imo sometimes a body is just a body, imo.

Nurse430+yrs.

"Saying they didn't have the will or attitude to cure themselves would be blaming the victim"----is not my quote!

Please do not take what I said out of context----Yes, there have been strong, positive, productive happy people who attempted to "fight cancer"....and lose.

Again, "we" you and I do not know what is TRULY in another's soul. They may verbalize one thing and believe another in their soul. WE have no way of knowing.

There are some schools of thought in the area of metaphysics---that say when one "attempts" something---it is like "trying"...you either do or don't--there is no attempt or try.

Another school of thought in metaphysics is that "fighting cancer" is NOT the answer--"fighting cancer" gives the mind a negative connotation....our minds have a tendency to focus on a negative---rather than the desired results...... Instead of "fighting cancer"... one should be proclaiming HEALTH.

To fight something is to give it more energy! Here's an example: Take the "war" on drug abuse and it's slogan "don't do drugs"....Believe it or not this slogan creates in the mind of people ---a negative which draws them toward the negative. (If I were to tell don't imagine a blue elephant--what does your mind do?)....The same thing---when one focuses on the illness..the mind goes toward that; when the mind focuses on wellness it goes toward that. Mind you not ALL people will abuse drugs, some have learned to control their mind and thoughts; but for those who do not control their thoughts--they CAN be drawn to the negative.

It's the same thing with health and illness--and the terms we use--such as "attempt"; "fighting cancer". Even Lance Armstrong--when he had cancer knew the power of words--and created his program ----called "LiveStrong"....rather than "fighting cancer".

Two books which are excellent: The Tongue a Creative Force by Charles Capps and Hung by the Tongue. And anything by Joseph Murphy.
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No. 27
from Jules A
Old Oct 07, 2008, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by nurse430+yrs View Post
Nurse430+yrs.

Again, "we" you and I do not know what is TRULY in another's soul. They may verbalize one thing and believe another in their soul. WE have no way of knowing.

Please correct me if I am wrong but this still sounds like you are saying that since we don't know what is going on inside their soul it is possible that they could have prevented their premature death if only they really wanted to.

Thank you for taking the time to reply. I always enjoy reading other's opinions but while I do think attitude makes some difference I don't feel it is as influential as you do. We will have to agree to disagree this time.
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No. 28
Old Oct 07, 2008, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Jules A View Post
Please correct me if I am wrong but this still sounds like you are saying that since we don't know what is going on inside their soul it is possible that they could have prevented their premature death if only they really wanted to.

Thank you for taking the time to reply. I always enjoy reading other's opinions but while I do think attitude makes some difference I don't feel it is as influential as you do. We will have to agree to disagree this time.
Nurse430+yrs
It could be possible for some; that doesn't make them a victim or put blame on them IF that is their choice.

We all live at conscious and subconscious levels in our lives. The conscious level for the most part we are aware --and for the most part we control------the subconscious is another story---the subconscious is much like a robot that has the power to control us without our conscious awareness.

Things buried in our subconscious have the power to manifest in our physical being--hurts from the past, unforgiveness, bad memories, physical hurts....good experiences..bad experiences, every movie you watch etc. etc. etc.

Additionally, what you and I define as "life" and "living" may not mean the same to them; so some people do make a choice consciously or subconsciously --to exit.

The consciously or subconsciously is the key--it is possible that somewhere in a person's subconscious--there is that desire to die. (if it is subconscious---they themselves may say one thing--in their heart/soul believe another)...they may not even themselves understand; be able to verbalize or know...at a conscious level.

Since they may be unaware of it....then how can you or I say...."they could have prevented their premature death if they really wanted to"??? If f you are not aware of something at a conscious level---how can you prevent it?

Along with the subconscious factor---then add to that....the "medical model" of disease (which we call health care), and the spiritual component (religion--with suffering, etc) and all of the advertisement of "dis-ease" and drugs.....it's no wonder...we have so many "accepting their diagnoses".

There are others who believe we come into this life with a "pre-agreement" with "life" "God" as to the time of our "exit" out of this life.

Who really knows? I do not have all of the answers that's for sure----agree to disagee.
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No. 29
from CityKat
Old Oct 07, 2008, 05:54 PM

Default Re: The Power of Positive Thought
Originally Posted by nurse430+yrs View Post
Nurse430+yrs.

"Another school of thought in metaphysics is that "fighting cancer" is NOT the answer--"fighting cancer" gives the mind a negative connotation....our minds have a tendency to focus on a negative---rather than the desired results...... Instead of "fighting cancer"... one should be proclaiming HEALTH.

To fight something is to give it more energy!
You really are dead on here. I don't think about getting sick and so, I rarely get sick.

Here is a perfect example:

I had pre cancerous cells on my cervix, years ago. I remember not even worrying about it and I went back 2 months later and it was gone. Yes, I know precancerous cervical cells more often than not, will go away on their own.

But recently, a friend of mine was diagnosed with it. I tried to explain to her what happened with me and the power of just not thinking about it, etc. Unfortunately, she could not forget about it b/c of the word "cancer." She worried about it all the time and ended up having cryo. If this doesn't work, then surgery is next. She's only 28 and is still consumed by it.

It truly is the thought. It's always been my experience.
The more energy put into something, the faster it materializes. Be it disease or health.
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