Re: The Power of Positive Thought Originally Posted by Jules A
Please correct me if I am wrong but this still sounds like you are saying that since we don't know what is going on inside their soul it is possible that they could have prevented their premature death if only they really wanted to.
Thank you for taking the time to reply. I always enjoy reading other's opinions but while I do think attitude makes some difference I don't feel it is as influential as you do. We will have to agree to disagree this time.
Nurse430+yrs
It could be possible for some; that doesn't make them a victim or put blame on them IF that is their choice.
We all live at conscious and subconscious levels in our lives. The conscious level for the most part we are aware --and for the most part we control------the subconscious is another story---the subconscious is much like a robot that has the power to control us
without our conscious awareness.
Things buried in our subconscious have the power to manifest in our physical being--hurts from the past, unforgiveness, bad memories, physical hurts....good experiences..bad experiences, every movie you watch etc. etc. etc.
Additionally, what you and I define as "life" and "living" may not mean the same to them; so some people do make a choice consciously or subconsciously --to exit.
The consciously or subconsciously is the key--it
is possible that somewhere in a person's subconscious--there
is that desire to die. (if it is
subconscious---they themselves may say one thing--in their heart/soul believe another)...
they may not even themselves understand; be able to verbalize or know...at a conscious level.
Since they may be unaware of it....then how can you or I say...."they could have prevented their premature death if they really wanted to"??? If f you are not aware of something at a
conscious level---how can you prevent it?
Along with the subconscious factor---then add to that....the "medical model" of disease (which we call health care), and the spiritual component (religion--with suffering, etc) and all of the advertisement of "dis-ease" and drugs.....it's no wonder...we have so many "accepting their diagnoses".
There are others who believe we come into this life with a "pre-agreement" with "life" "God" as to the time of our "exit" out of this life.
Who really knows? I do not have all of the answers that's for sure----agree to disagee.
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