Re: Do you think you are adequately compensated in your job as a nurse?
wtbcrna said: In response to my post from page number 4
"You can choose where you work! Nursing has its' problems, but like any other job there are bad places to work and good ones. What it all comes down to in the end is it is your nursing career...not your nurse managers/hospital administrators or anyone else, you make the decision ultimately on how you will be treated/where you will work/how much you will work etc.Good Luck I hope you have a better day/shift tomorrow!
tinygeezers said:
What I want to say is we are professionals. I am a professional. I don't work for the hospital. I work for myself. I provide RN services to a hospital. I choose the hospital. I choose the unit. I choose the shift. I choose to decide if the compensation package is acceptable. I choose to analyze the working conditions to determine if they are acceptable. I choose to continue or terminate my association with a facility as I deem fit. I choose. If I don't like something, and I cannot change it, then I vote with my feet and move on. The fact that I can choose my profession and it's circumstances makes me a professional. I feel we need to be compensated better, but I am certainly not a victim
"Nursing is a joke says: The above are just some of the responses I received after I put up my post. Apparently, I got under the skin of some. Before I became a nurse I owned three restaurants, a painting company and was a chef for 20 years in Manhattan. I employed hundreds of people before I became a nurse and have gathered a retirement's worth of wealth before I became a nurse..(thank goodness I did...... because as a nurse....... there is no retirement.....just poverty for all the work you put in over 20/30 years.)
I am certainly not a victim. I am stating factual information based on my experience as a nurse. You can only be a victim if you give others permission to victimize you. It is true I can vote with my feet. And for all the reasons stated by the responder, I have used my feet scores of times due to the un professionalism of the nurses (especially nurse managers) that I have worked with. I do not allow people to abuse me....... but it seems nurses are accused of "swimming against the tide" or " not going with the flow" if you don't stand there and take the abuse. I choose to tell my manager off and then use my feet to walk out the door.
There is also this reality..... and as a former business owner I know what I'm talking about. Nurse managers know that 80% of the population depend on their paychecks week to week and would be devastated if they missed even a week's worth of pay. They use this information to intimidate nurses into doing whatever it is they want the nurse to do. Nurses who desperately need the money, do not have the luxury, that we may have, to vote with their feet and just leave. They have children to feed and rent to pay. They cannot afford nor do they have the freedom to "Vote with their feet." They cannot afford or have the freedom to " choose" what they will do next." They are stuck due to lack of funds and the need for every penny the institution is willing to give them...... which, I repeated, is a pitifully low amount considering our knowledge base and the amount of work we do. I have the luxury of voting with my feet and leaving what I find unacceptable. But I am sticking up for those who don't.
So before lecturing those of us who are warning potential nurses of the pitfalls of nursing you may want to consider that not everyone has your luxury to do as they please. I could quit nursing if I so choose. I could quit working if I so choose and never have to work again. There are many who have had, and are having the experience I have had as a nurses but are terrified of saying anything ( and rightly so) because nursing is not a democracy. You will be punished if you say the wrong thing and lose your job. And, unfortunately, whatever facility a nurse goes to............ it is the same. Overworked, underpaid, expected to be silent while those in authority abuse you..... ( and they especially like to do this publicly), expected to stay past your shift without being paid for it, keep silent when you call in sick and then are threatened with disciplinary action if you call in sick again, beg for raises you'll never get......... ad nauseam.
Those who responded to me with a lecture are speaking to a full grown man who has been all over the world several times and has owned many businesses and employed hundreds of people for over 20 years, before he became a nurse. I became a nurse because I was set financially and had the desire to go to college ( which I had not done before.) I had already spent years volunteering my time for causes I cared about while I owned my businesses. I figured why not get into a field where I can help people and still make an additional income. Being professional, to me, means not having other tell me how to "volunteer" my time. If you want me to work.......... than you PAY me for it. This is not the case in nursing. You work whether you like it or not, and you will NOT be paid for it..... and if you don't I will fire you. THAT IS THE EXPERIENCE OF TODAY'S NURSE. It is most unfortunate.
I have been around the block a few times. And, as I've stated, luckily, I placed myself in a financial position where I am set for my retirement........ and I did all this BEFORE I became a nurse. I know what being a professional is. And it is not professional to use information..... ie. 80% of the population depends on living paycheck to paycheck........ to get people to do the most outlandish things that would not be acceptable in any other line of work. Plus, as a male nurse, I am astounded at the sex discrimination against women that I witness in nursing. The male who responded to me............. well....... that sounds like a male way of dealing with what a man does not like or what a man will or will not put up with. He will leave and find something else or somewhere else to work.
Women respond differently than we do....... and put up with a lot more abuse than we do. These are my observations....... not my opinions. What is astonishing to me is that it is women discriminate against other women, in this field, and that is so alarming to me. Instead of sticking up for each other, they stab each other in the backs. My original response was to a young person who was thinking about becoming a nurse. I was letting her know the realities of what to expect when she becomes a nurse.
I realize there are many nurses who allow their pride in their work and the fact that they are proud to be nurses cloud their judgment. Many people I rub the wrong way are older nurses. I have found that when people grow up in a culture...... they do not see the flaws in the culture they have grown up in. I believe it is this way with nurses. Those who were nurses since they were very young ( 20's) think that they way nursing is..... is "normal" Well, it's not. Sometimes it takes someone who has not grown up in the culture and joined the culture when they were older......... they see the flaws. But those who have lived in the culture and think, "well that's just the way it is" will fight with me tooth and nail to justify why it is OK to haze the newcomer, work for nothing, Stay past your shift whether you like it or not..WITHOUT PAY, put up with abusive leadership or be fired............. "Hey, that's just the way it is..... it's been like this since the beginning and you can't change it now." Baloney, You can change it now...... if you're willing to put yourself front and center and demand that change take place. It's the culture's dependence on our silence, and their tactics to keep you silent....... that keeps things the same as they ever were.
I certainly don't need to be lectured on the facts of life. As a nurse, You cannot "Choose" where you work, that is an illusion............. because every new place you work is exactly the same as the last place you worked. This is my experience...... and I've worked in many genres of nursing and in many different institutions. The nursing culture does not change from one institution to the next. Nurses eat their young in one institution just as much as they do in another. So far there have been no " good places" to work as I was lectured to in response to my post. In ALL institution, the bottom line is money........ and when money is the bottom line and all decisions are made based on the bottom line........ there is no GOOD nursing institution. When money is King, no decisions are made based on what is in the best interest of the nurses or patients. All decisions are made based on the bottom line. This makes money more important than people. And since all institution operate that way....... all institutions provide substandard care for patients and put the licenses of the nurses at risk for their own benefit. I found it amusing that I was being assessed as a person who had a bad day/shift and that is why I was verbalizing what I was verbalizing. Again, another case of a nurse thinking she knows what the REAL deal is when she has no idea what she is talking about. I have also noticed that the majority of nurses suffer from same disease............. it is called, "I am a genius and everyone else is an idiot" disease. Sad really.
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