Why do dying people reach upward?

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    I've noticed that when it gets toward the end for people (not necessarily the VERY end, but maybe the last month or so when they have started really going downhill) they will hold their arms upward once in awhile and then let them fall at their sides.

    I've seen this a lot. My father-in-law did it, too. He would have his eyes closed and raise his arms in the air as if he were reaching up.

    Is this some kind of strange reflex or something?
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    I think it depends on your spiritual point of view, but I've actually heard people reach and say loved ones' names who were long gone. So I think they're seeing them again and can see who's going to welcome them on the other side.
    mom and nurse, shoegalRN, lindarn, and 3 others like this.
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    Quote from angie o'plasty, rn
    i think it depends on your spiritual point of view, but i've actually heard people reach and say loved ones' names who were long gone. so i think they're seeing them again and can see who's going to welcome them on the other side.

    :yeahthat::yeahthat::yeahthat::yeahthat:

    may i suggest the "come on home" reflex...
    mom and nurse, RedRobin8, lindarn, and 3 others like this.
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    yep, re angie's and blue's posts.
    they really do see loved ones who have passed.
    it's also heartwarming to listen to them have a seemingly, one-sided conversation...

    leslie
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    We had an inservice on end of life issues yesterday sponsored by Hospice and it's very common. Many of them also "talk" to deceased friends/ relatives. I've also witnessed this many times in my career.
    shoegalRN, lindarn, and Simplepleasures like this.
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    they might see their lord and are anxious to be greeted by him
    Mobeeb, VivaLasViejas, RedRobin8, and 3 others like this.
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    I took this world religion class, and there are universals among the major religions, like that heaven is assoc with sky, and earth with 'mother' and hell is down below. there is a good book about that, if only i could remember the name (I am info overloaded right now) and i forgot what was assoc w/ water (something was), that was true for all the major religions.
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    Well, I looked over Jordan and what did I see?
    Comin' for to carry me home.
    A band of angels comin' after me,
    comin' for to carry me home.

    Swing low, sweet chariot, etc. :angel2::angel2::angel2::flowersfo:wshgrt:nbch:*wine:wlcmggrp::wlcmghrt:
    Anxious Patient, Mobeeb, RedRobin8, and 4 others like this.
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    Quote from vito andolini
    well, i looked over jordan and what did i see?
    comin' for to carry me home.
    a band of angels comin' after me,
    comin' for to carry me home.

    swing low, sweet chariot, etc. :angel2::angel2::angel2::flowersfo:wshgrt:nbch:*wine:wlcmggrp::wlcmghrt:
    too cute vito !!
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    That is funny, because my father-in-law was an atheist and was not talking about or to dead people. We were having a difficult time with him, he did not want to cooperate and while we were trying to reason with him he just sat there and closed his eyes, then stretched his arms toward the sky and flopped them down at his sides.
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