What would you tell to your younger self?
- 0Dec 17, '12 by jtomsHi guys,
I'm 19 years old currently taking prerequisites courses for the adn program in a community college, I'm developing a big passion towards taking care of patients in and out of the hospital. I volunteer at a local hospital and it's one of my greatest experiences so far. What would you guys do if time has flipped back and you were 19 again?
- 5Dec 18, '12 by 1IndecisiveStudentIf you have a good support system, take your studies seriously and get your BSN knocked out.
Don't get in a rush to get married. Education before marriage. Likewise, get on a reliable birth control method (Depo shot is mine of choice). If you choose birth control pills please make sure you take them correctly. Same time everyday, correct order etc. You would be surprised how many girls I have seen get pregnant because they aren't educated on how to take their birth control pills.
That is all.
- 2Dec 18, '12 by Ntheboat2Same as above. I would've focused more on school and spent less time socializing. I got pregnant in college and even though I still graduated, it made it 10x harder than it had to be. Then, of course when I decided I wanted to be a nurse (my first degree was not nursing) I had to work, go to school, and juggle family life. It sounds really simple, and people told me the same thing when I was young, but obviously I didn't listen.
- 8Dec 18, '12 by CT Pixie, ASN, RNForget him...he's not worth your tears and the breakup will derail your life's plan of going to nursing school by 20 years! You will survive, you WILL meet someone so much better and deserving of all the love you have to give, and he will have Karma pay him a visit or how horribly he treated you and others. You just need to sit back and wait for it to happen. (and it will and DOES happen!)
Education is key! Stay in school. Socializing should take 2nd priority not 1st! Don't let the normal life issues stop you from obtaining your education. School first, marriage and babies after. (and preferably in that order
And finally, even though 'you' (aka my younger self) won't listen to this advice, the decisions you make will lead a delay in obtaining your dream of becoming a nurse, but it will also lead you to the love of your life and future husband and 2 healthy happy children.
Wishing the OP the best.
- 3Dec 18, '12 by TheCommuter, ASN, RN Senior ModeratorYouth is fleeting. I look back to my 19-year-old self and it seems like yesterday. I will be 32 years old in a couple of months. Time waits for nothing and no one.
My advice might go against the grain, but I personally would not become too invested in any one career. After all, a career is nothing more than a job in the long run, whereas the best things in life are free. These best things are usually different to different people: family formation, new experiences, leisure, love, romance, hobbies, pastimes, etc.
- 1Dec 18, '12 by HouTx GuideQuote from CT PixieWOW!!! There's definitely a story there, right? You Go CTPixie!Forget him...he's not worth your tears and the breakup will derail your life's plan of going to nursing school by 20 years! You will survive, you WILL meet someone so much better and deserving of all the love you have to give, and he will have Karma pay him a visit or how horribly he treated you and others. You just need to sit back and wait for it to happen. (and it will and DOES happen!)