Quote from fergus51
No. Personally, I think it's a little odd to think you deserve compensation for this. You had sex knowing you had the chance of becoming pregnant.
Fergus, you just took the words right out of my mouth. Amazing our "entitlement" sense we have in this country. What entitles someone to sue in this case?
To the OP: You have options, one of which you blew by completely. You could have abstained. But seeing as that did not work for you, you had other options too. You can use double protection (hormonal birth control PLUS barrier methods). Your chances of becoming pregnant with double protection were very low. If hormones are not for you, you can use natural family planning and barrier methods. You have had so many means available to you not to become pregnant. And like mentioned, you could have gone back and had that tubal later on.
Well you are in a tough spot, I can see. Now what can you do? Well, You can have an abortion (I am not advocating, just listing as a choice), you can give the child up to a family who desperately wants one. Or you can choose to welcome this unplanned child into your lives and hearts and home.
However you DO NOT automatically have a case for suit! NO ONE DID harm to you! You have to suck it up and make some big decisions now, I guess, and I would be concentrating on what your options are NOW very carefully. I wish you the best, whatever decisions you reach.