This one is about Ed, the crusty curmudgeon of "ear WAX!" fame from "Elders Say the Darnedest Things". Without revealing too many personal details, let us just say that this gentleman is one of my favorite residents, EVER. He's been on the ICF (otherwise known as intermediate care, or long-term/custodial care) unit of our facility for a couple of years, but in the relatively short time I've known him, I've discovered that underneath his gruff demeanor and crude manners lives a mischievous lad with a sense of humor that won't quit...and even a little sweetness. Like most of our residents, Ed has more than just a touch of dementia, but he can be amazingly sharp at times---especially when he's trying to pull a fast one on the nurse! He's caught me flatfooted on more than one occasion, and he likes nothing better than to tease me about it afterwards. So yesterday evening as I was delivering his mealtime meds, I figured he was just trying to lure me into another of his traps when he warned me, "You better be careful when you step around to the other side of the table." Me (chuckling): "How come, Ed?" Ed (eyes dancing gleefully): "Well, some dog went and (insert vulgar term for defecated) in that corner there by the TV." Me (not believing it for a second): "Oh, Ed, you're pulling my leg. Here, take your metformin." Ed: "I'm not joshin' ya, there's a pile of it right over t' other side." Me (still thinking he's full of it): "Yeah, right, I know you---you're just trying to make me look silly." Ed: "No, I'm not---just step over there 'n take a look if you don't believe me." About this time it dawned on me that he might, indeed, NOT be joking. A couple of folks from the local ASPCA had brought in a little Chihuahua and a kitten earlier in the afternoon for the residents to pet (and the staff to seriously consider adopting); I supposed anything could've happened, so I obliged Ed and went around the table..........and sure enough, there was a pile of dog feces on the floor. Which prompted me to lose all decorum and announce loudly, "OMG, it's just like being at home: I gotta pick up dog poo off the floor!" Ed cocked an eye at me as I scooped up the mess in a napkin, and commented dryly, "If my dog woulda has done that, I'd-a drop-kicked 'im through the goalposts of life." It was a reference to an old Bobby Bare song that we discovered, some time back, that we both knew and got a kick out of (pun intended). I looked at him, he looked back at me with a self-satisfied smirk, and we both broke up laughing. He's not always funny, I must say. I've seen him sob like a broken-hearted child after waking up in the middle of a dream about his much-adored (and long-dead) "Momma", with whom we all suspect he had some abuse issues. I've also seen him curse the CNAs at the top of his lungs and lash out at them physically when they change his briefs or try to get him out of a T-shirt he's been wearing 24/7 for the past week. But as a World War II veteran and former train conductor, semi-professional bowler, factory worker, and Wal-Mart greeter who never married or had children, he's had it pretty rough, and we can understand why someone who's always been alone might have trouble living with a bunch of other people and being handled by kids young enough to be his great-grandchildren. He'll yell at the woman who sits in the dining room screaming obscenities to "shut the (blankety-blank-blank) UP!!" He sees nothing wrong with zipping up and down the halls in his wheelchair hollering out whatever comes to mind (last night it was "pain PILL!") or swearing when his flaccid left arm slips off the arm of the chair during church services. And he thinks WE'RE strange because it tickles the heck out of us to hear him way down on the other end of the building yelling "Ed-EEEEEE!" But we just can't help loving that man...........and the day he goes to that great Oregon Ducks game in the sky will be a sad one indeed.