Strangest Visitor events - page 3

How about those family members or friends who come to visit? Any interesting experiences with that?... Read More

  1. by   Sabby_NC
    Nothing too weird I guess for me but I did look after a woman whose name was Donaldo!! and I kid you not her kids were lewie, hugie and dewie!!! I promise you on my bible that is the ever living truth!!!!
    Those kids made us shudder when they came. No discipline at all!! arrgghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh:an gryfire:angryfire:angryfire:angryfire
  2. by   bethin
    Quote from Sabby_NC
    Nothing too weird I guess for me but I did look after a woman whose name was Donaldo!! and I kid you not her kids were lewie, hugie and dewie!!! I promise you on my bible that is the ever living truth!!!!
    Those kids made us shudder when they came. No discipline at all!! arrgghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh:an gryfire:angryfire:angryfire:angryfire
    And the husband's name?
  3. by   homenurse12
    I once walked on on a hospital patient I was caring for and his partner. The patient was very end stage HIV. Too weak to move. When I opened the door the partner was mounting him on the bed. The patient's face was distorted in agony. Broke my heart. This man was days from death and the partner wanted sex from him. I lost my cool and pulled the man off of him and threw him out of the hospital and told him not to come back. My patient just whispered " thank you". He died 2 days later.
  4. by   leslie :-D
    Quote from homenurse12
    I once walked on on a hospital patient I was caring for and his partner. The patient was very end stage HIV. Too weak to move. When I opened the door the partner was mounting him on the bed. The patient's face was distorted in agony. Broke my heart. This man was days from death and the partner wanted sex from him. I lost my cool and pulled the man off of him and threw him out of the hospital and told him not to come back. My patient just whispered " thank you". He died 2 days later.
    it doesn't get much sicker than that.

    leslie
  5. by   ElvishDNP
    Quote from homenurse12
    I once walked on on a hospital patient I was caring for and his partner. The patient was very end stage HIV. Too weak to move. When I opened the door the partner was mounting him on the bed. The patient's face was distorted in agony. Broke my heart. This man was days from death and the partner wanted sex from him. I lost my cool and pulled the man off of him and threw him out of the hospital and told him not to come back. My patient just whispered " thank you". He died 2 days later.
    That is disgusting and heartless. The partner, I mean, if you can call him a partner. Sounds more like a rapist.
  6. by   Sabby_NC
    Quote from bethin
    And the husband's name?
    You know he must not have made ANY impression of me as I cannot remember but my darlin' girlfriend will so I shall ask her... I don't think it was of the duck relation though LOL
  7. by   mercyteapot
    I remember something that always struck me with certain people. I worked 2 summers cleaning hotel rooms and it was the same there and in the hospitals... it was as though I became a piece of the furniture and no mind had to paid to my presence. I saw all manner of behavior that is meant to be kept private.
  8. by   leslie :-D
    Quote from mercyteapot
    I remember something that always struck me with certain people. I worked 2 summers cleaning hotel rooms and it was the same there and in the hospitals... it was as though I became a piece of the furniture and no mind had to paid to my presence. I saw all manner of behavior that is meant to be kept private.
    you should read the thread, "sex police" in the ob/gyn forum.:imbar

    leslie
  9. by   crissrn27
    I had a pt that was around 12 hours post delivery walk her visitors to the nursery to see the baby wearing only a short (to the belly button) shirt, and the net panties with huge pad. And she did not take kindly to the suggestion that she return to her room for a robe. Someone finally brought her a gown to put on!

    I once had a delivery where the moms husband, and the babies dad (who was NOT the husband) both attended the delivery, they were very well behaved, and were both great for mom during and after the delivery!

    I'm sure I'll think of more, brains not working great right now!
  10. by   iheartyou
    Quote from Goofball
    We have liberalized our visiting policy inthe
    ICU's. Maybe too much. We had this comatose lady on a vent with a realllly weird family. One day
    while passing the room, the charge nurse found
    the spouse lying on top of the patient, making
    out with her and tonguing her, even around her
    endotracheal tube (and she'd been there for
    about 3 weeks, so she had become nice and
    crusty and yeasty).
    Meanwhile, on the floor beside the bed, was their adult mutant son, doing pushups as fast as he could!
    WHAT???? :smackingf:lol_hitti
  11. by   iheartyou
    Quote from lpnandloveit1
    while working in a LTC we had a cva pt who was non verbal and not mobile. her daughter came in on 3 different occasions and came screaming into the hall you didn't wash my mom's p---y! I smelled it and you didn't wash it. She would then grab a large stack of washclothes and wash Mom's "stuff" then she would use q-tips to clean all of the cracks and crevices. then she threw all of the uses cleaning stuff into the hall screaming about her mom's stinky P---y. We were finally able to get court order for her not to visit but you wouln't believe how hard that was.
  12. by   Ruby Vee
    there was the prostitute who used to climb in the window of the "men's ward" of our stepdown unit and go around the room servicing the patients for a nominal fee.

    there was the patient who was in prison with a life sentence visiting his father, also a lifer. in that state, it was illegal to withdraw care on a prisoner with a life sentence because that would be shortening his sentence. so the son came in with a home-made machete down his pants to assist him in shortening dad's life sentence. i was trying to push maalox down dad's ng tube when all of a sudden one of sonny's prison guards tackled me. i lay on the floor with this huge, overweight prison guard on top of me, watching while dad's guard and sonny's second guard took him down, cuffed him and relieved him of the machete. i never saw that one coming!

    there was the visitor who was angry about the nursing care his loved one was recieving and became verbally abusive to the nursing staff. my friend bob was the supervisor that night, and got called to come up and deal with the visitor. the talk didn't go well -- bob went running down the hall yelling "take cover!" and followed his own advice by diving behind the nurse's station just as the visitor fired his 9mm semi-automatic hand gun. the round went through the desk, driving splinters into bob's butt! he did get an award for being shot in the ass at work.
  13. by   bethin
    Ruby, you have the best stories!

    Where do you work 'cause I want a job there! Sounds very exciting.

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