pro life to work in ER OR OB

I just have a quick question. I know earlier you posted about your beliefs with BC and then someone commented on BC when it is used for someone with heavy menstrual cramps or even ovarian cysts. Would you be able to administer this medication to someone who is using it for this reason? For example, I have an IUD because I cannot tolerate any other form of BC. I am 22 and married. But what if I was 13 and had horrible periods and couldn't tolerate other forms of BC ( I know this is rare) and a doctor gave that pt an IUD. What if you have a pt who comes in for something completely unrelated but then mentions they want to get put on BC and they are a HS student using it only for pregnancy prevention? You would have to refuse administering meds to the pt you have already agreed to care for. I think it's very hard to set yourself up for that kind of situation. Every time you have an admission you are going to think in the back of your head "oh can I take this pt or are they here for something that is against my beliefs?" I would very carefully consider your departmental choices. Is it possible to work in these with your conditions? Absolutely. However, could you possibly put a burden on another nurse? Absolutely. I respect your honestly on the situation I just caution you that you could make your life very hard on yourself. I would hate for you to become a nurse and never find a nurse manager in any of the chosen departments that will respect your wishes. That may be rare but it is also possible. Either way I hope you find peace with your decision.