I have always found panthose to be comfortable when it doesn't feel like pantyhose. I say away from anything that says "control top" or "support" anything. I try to find something along the lines of "sheer to the waist".
That way it didn't feel like a compression garment when I pulled it on.
If you are going to wear hose, always keep clear nail polish and an extra pair in your bag for runs.
I have extremely fair skin, so with a white skirt or dress, trust me, I would be right there with you wearing the hose.