My son is missing

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My 17 year old son has been missing since last night. We've had trouble with him in the past year with drinking and marijuana, and he's been in counseling. But the past few months he's been clean. We know this because we have him randomly tested. His grades improved, his personality improved.

Last night he got drunk with a friend and they vandalized a car. He called us this morning on his cell phone, and said he was lost in some woods, then the battery went dead. I know he's terrified of the trouble he's going to be in.

I'm not excusing his behavior. He will have to pay the consequences when he comes home. But he does have a suspected anxiety disorder and when something goes wrong, he panics.

The police went looking for him, my husband is looking for him, our friends are looking for him. I'm waiting by the phone. After two hours, the police called off their search saying that if he knows they're looking it will chase him away even more. How in the heck is he supposed to know they aren't looking for him??????

It's cold and raining out and he's only wearing a t-shirt and jeans. I only hope he finds shelter.

I'm not even sure why I posted this here. I just know that in the past you've all given your prayers and best wishes to others.

I have never been so lost or so scared in my life.

Specializes in Hemodialysis, Home Health.

Halleluliah !!!

I am soooooooooooooooo relieved for all of you. Have yourself a good cry now, and a prayer of thanksgiving.

Thank you for letting us know.

So... do we get to all come over and help whup his little orifice? :D

This is a hard age. My heart goes out to all.

Specializes in Hemodialysis, Home Health.

Halleluliah !!!

I am soooooooooooooooo relieved for all of you. Have yourself a good cry now, and a prayer of thanksgiving.

Thank you for letting us know.

So... do we get to all come over and help whup his little orifice? :D

This is a hard age. My heart goes out to all.

Specializes in Obstetrics, M/S, Psych.

I'm so glad he's safe! The fact that he called you when he needed help shows he has trust in you. As long as you have that, the positve possibilities are endless.

Specializes in Obstetrics, M/S, Psych.

I'm so glad he's safe! The fact that he called you when he needed help shows he has trust in you. As long as you have that, the positve possibilities are endless.

Specializes in CV-ICU.

Cybercat, my prayers go out to you. May I recommend that you find a Tough Love group to attend? Between Al Anon and Tough Love, it was the only way I made it through my son's drug and behavior problems at that age.

Maybe this will be an epiphany for him and he will start to straighten out now. DO NOT GIVE IN; and DO NOT GIVE UP! He needs to pay the natural consequences for his bahavior; this is a hard lesson for any parent to learn, but especially one whose child have both medical problems and a history of drug use. Been there, done that.

You may PM me anytime if you wish to talk.

JennyP

Specializes in CV-ICU.

Cybercat, my prayers go out to you. May I recommend that you find a Tough Love group to attend? Between Al Anon and Tough Love, it was the only way I made it through my son's drug and behavior problems at that age.

Maybe this will be an epiphany for him and he will start to straighten out now. DO NOT GIVE IN; and DO NOT GIVE UP! He needs to pay the natural consequences for his bahavior; this is a hard lesson for any parent to learn, but especially one whose child have both medical problems and a history of drug use. Been there, done that.

You may PM me anytime if you wish to talk.

JennyP

Specializes in Hospice, Critical Care.

Thank God! I will continue to pray for him (and you and your hubby!).

Thanks for letting us know.

Specializes in Hospice, Critical Care.

Thank God! I will continue to pray for him (and you and your hubby!).

Thanks for letting us know.

I am so happy that he was found - I was praying for you

I am so happy that he was found - I was praying for you

Specializes in Hospice.

Glad your family is back together! Prayer and good vibes from friends around the world works miracles! ((((hugs))))) and keep your head up.

Specializes in Hospice.

Glad your family is back together! Prayer and good vibes from friends around the world works miracles! ((((hugs))))) and keep your head up.

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