Most RN's first borns? - page 25

Hi everybody, I have a question and PLEASE dont anybody blast me for typecasting, this was not MY statement, it was a LCSW I was friends with. She claims that a huge % of nurses are first born... Read More

  1. by   happydays352
    First born, mom is RN she's the third born but her sister died after one week so she grew up as a second child .
  2. by   honeyko247
    I think, to the very least, that's just a coincidence.:wink2::wink2:
  3. by   Nursebarebari
    I'm the last of 6 kids and the caregiver of the family. Oldest sister is also female and doing better than all of us, but she does not give a s...t about anybody in the family. Four generation family tree shows no etoh history.

    Wonder where your friend got that info.
  4. by   Luelle
    #2 no probs with dad
  5. by   MNmom3boys
    I am first born of five, although no ETOH issues in home. I'm the only RN, although Mom is LPN - 2nd daughter some emotional abuse at home (no ETOH)

    In the context of our psych class, an informal poll showed the statement referred to by the OP to have some merit. (Although not a hard and fast rule as shown by the varied responses here...)
  6. by   GenXnurse
    1st born- ETOH dad. Except I'm male (had to buck the trend a little)
    Plus my mom is an RN!!! I guess I was doomed! :smilecoffeecup:
  7. by   mfran
    First born, parents not alcoholics, but there are 16 kids in my family!!!!!!!!!!:spin:
  8. by   MacunaRN
    I'm a first child born to womanizer-workaholic father and foodaholic mother with undiagnosed psych grandmother (moms mom) was deprssive that tried to commit suicide (thankfuly she didn't succeed) greatgrandmother was scizophrneic. On the other hand my fathers father was womanizer-alcoholic died @ 41 of heart attack and all of my moms family are addicted to rx drugs great uncle drug abuser died of cirrhosis...I'm older by 14 and 16 years than my little sisters always was moms best friend we always joke that i was her mother in our last lives.. Goes deeper my 1st husband was an alcoholic/workaholic/womanizer.. current bf alcoholic undiagnosed..It's almost like we nurses unknowingly no generalizations tend to be codependent the need to be needed and fix the unfixable at times...very interesting.i don't drink and am a go getter. they had some study on good morning america some study about the power of birth order maybe that combo of 1st born and dysfunctional family pulls us to this field i guess that's why sometimes we nurse have difficulty dealing with drug seeking or alcoholic Pt's something about looking in the mirror not being able to cope with the image looking back... always felt bad for ex grew up having to get mom from the local bar when he was nine large string of different stepdads that would beat his mom very sad..current bf dad and bro have dui's and are self admitted alcoholics
    Last edit by MacunaRN on Oct 20, '07
  9. by   NursKris82
    1st born of 2. Dad not around, mom alcoholic and the got sick and died of CA at 34 years old. Definetely the caregiver, always have been.
  10. by   cloister
    First born of three, no alcoholism. Best friend is also a nurse, and she is the youngest of three, but the only sane one in the lot.
  11. by   jade-athyst
    Yep, that's me to a T. First born, alcoholic father, family "caretaker".
  12. by   gagezoie
    Second born and second girl. No alcoholics but my dad was a big hippie stoner.:trout: Does that count. J/k
  13. by   SKM-NURSIEPOOH
    [font="comic sans ms"]i don't know about *most* being first born. all that i know is that i am the baby of the bunch & am the only rn of the family. my maternal grandmom was a lpn & she was the third born of 18 kids...lol!


    cheers ,
    moe

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