I don't know why I am so incompetent when I leave the hospital. At work I'm one of the "go-to-people". I do not feel scared or incapable and when I know I am not trained to handle a situation I know how to get the help I need. At work people come to me for advice and I feel confident in giving it to them. However whenever anything happens with my son I'm a nervous wreck. My son is almost 3 and thankfully has only been injured twice, neither time seriously. But this weekend he stuck his hand in the car door as he was closing it. I am just thankful my husband was home to take care of him while I basically stood in the corner shaking like a leaf. As soon as we determined that his main concern was his train he left in the car I got this wave of nausea and had to sit down. I have never had anything like this happen to me at work. I know its different when its your family but I have never been this incompetent at anything before. Is this normal?