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No. 10
from Orca
Old Nov 02, 2009, 04:08 PM

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I worked in a place where there was in effect a ruling clique. Members of said clique got the choice assignments and all the promotions while the rest of us (read: the people who made things happen) got the scut work and the crap schedules. The only solution I found was to leave.
Proficient or even excellent performance as a staff nurse is not the same skill set as being in a supervisory or managerial position.
I have a charge nurse working under me struggling with that very issue now. She is very happy performing line level work, but she has never quite mastered the skills necessary to be a leader and she is deciding whether she wants to continue with it. Unfortunately, taking a position you are not comfortable with is often the only way to get a raise, and some people not suited for leadership roles wind up in them as a result.
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No. 11
Old Nov 05, 2009, 02:06 PM

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Thanks guys! I appreciate all your comments and encouragement.

I have moved around quite a bit in my >10 yrs of experience as a nurse mainly because of these kinds of issues that I see and experience at work. The only way I could think of at those times was to relieve myself of the stress and anger I have from these politics. But it sure proved wrong maybe because I will always be new to a unit or floor because I move a lot eventhough I am an old nurse. It is only good for short term but in the long term , moving around is to my disadvantage.
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No. 12
from diane227
Old Nov 06, 2009, 11:39 AM

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All medical organizations work the same but differently and it is hard to know until you get into that organization. No matter where you go, in or out of medicine/nursing, you will find the same kind of people that you will find anywhere else. People that gossip, are lazy, that get in your business, that write everyone up, just sit around a let others do their work etc. The problem is that we are dealing with lives and what we do can kill someone. People are the same everywhere. You just have to learn how to work in spite of them and how to put them in their place.
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No. 13
Old Nov 08, 2009, 08:17 AM

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Putting them in their place is a skill. I feel like if you put them in their place, there is a feeling of animosity and I do not like that feeling where I am working. Not putting them in their place without causing this animosity or ill feeling is a skill I still am trying to learn...I hope one day it comes to me as I get older... I have my share of people I have ill feelings with. I don't like it but If I didn't do what I did, they will just walk all over me.

And you are absolutely right. It is the same no matter where you go just different faces but same ol things...
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No. 14
from Ruby Vee
Old Nov 08, 2009, 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Altra View Post
Some food for thought:

1. It is human nature to gravitate toward people we that we perceive share our outlook/vision/point of view/etc. This is not unique to nursing, and is not necessarily an altogether bad thing.

2. Proficient or even excellent performance as a staff nurse is not the same skill set as being in a supervisory or managerial position.
Nevertheless, it seems wrong to reward shoddy care and laziness by promoting the individual to a supervisory or managerial position.

As a staff nurse, I've always found it extremely difficult to take it seriously when an assistant manager known for calling in sick every Sunday morning and for shoddy care, messy rooms and laziness would attempt to take me to task for calling in sick the day I put my dog to sleep, forgetting to change my suction cannisters or not bathing my patient on an especially busy night.
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