Hi everyone,
Once again I am turning to you for support. My dad was diagonsed with severe aortic stenosis ( a bad heart valve ) about five years ago. He refused the surgery to fix it because at the time he wasn't really feeling the effects of it but he quit work anyway and got on disability. For about the past year or so, he has seemed to get much worse with increased chest pain, shortness of breath, and bad circulation. Now these symptoms aren't every day and we have learned to live with them. But it just really scares me when he hurts so bad that he hardly can walk or talk and has to go lie down. Please don't respond by saying that he needs to have surgery because I know he does and that would be great but he is very against that unless it is an extreme emergency. But what I am afraid of is that then it will be too late. I guess what I am really asking is what do you think will happen when he does eventually have a heart attack or stroke ~ will it be too late ?? I know that it varies from person to person but just a general opinion would be helpful. Sorry this is long but I am really scared and really need support and info. Thanks so much.