I had eight jobs last year, I'm tired of job hopping. Advice for this year?

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Last year I had eight jobs as a LPN. I'm so tired of job hopping and just want to stay put. I take full responsibility and admit that I'm not good at making good decisions when it comes to employment. Here is my history from last year.

1. LTC, held from 6-2010-6/2011. I went PRN while finishing up school, they did not contact me at all to work so therefore I resigned

2. LTC, held from 05/2011-07/2011- Was the not the right fit, constantly overwhelmed and was given unsafe assignments, therefore I left

3.Ped HH, 07/2011-10/2011 did not care for this at all, felt like over paid babysitter

4. Another peds, HH From 8/2011-08/2011, case was not working for me

5. Methadone clinic 07/2011-present PRN. Have not been asked to work

6. School nurse agency- 07/2011- present, PRN, I'm still here and its going okay. I work for them 1-2 times a month

7. LTC, 10/2011-11/2011, hired for parttime but then fired due to schedule conflict with school ( which I told them my avail. when I started)

8. ALF 8/2011-9/2011, this place was a hellhole, I did not last through orientation

*** I seriously need help. I don't know what my problem is. I feel as though I'm always so desperate and I take the first job that hires me without being one hundred percent sure. I have burnt so many bridges and I do want to change. I'm starting this year out on the wrong foot as well, but that is another post.... I'm getting my RN license soon and now I'm left with the question on whether to quit my newly secured part-time job in a methadone clinic to get clinical experience in the hospital when the opportunity arrives. I really want to work as a RN in the hospital but I can't sit around and do nothing while waiting. It could take a really long time. Ofcourse if someone offers me a RN job with full time and bennies I would be inclined to take it. This is making me so depressed. Any advice is greatly appreciated.

Relax. Realize that you need to stay put in your current part time position until you get situated for the next step. Seems to me this is your course of action for the start of the new year. Resolve to mellow out at this job, while preparing for your next move. Do not allow yourself the opportunity to walk away from this part time gig. Consider it an act of perserverance for your work life. Pretend you are going to starve to death unless you can adapt here. You can do this.

Specializes in Trauma, ER, ICU, CCU, PACU, GI, Cardiology, OR.

First of all congrats on getting your RN license that's an accomplishment within itself. Regarding your PT job, I wouldn't let go of it too quickly, because it could turn into a FT situation; plus they know your work already. Furthermore, these future employers see your potential, this why you get so many offers. I have no doubt that you will find the correct fit in time; in the meantime enjoy your PT. Good luck in your future endeavors~

ok then.

i agree with what every poster has advised.

obviously there are issues that you need to address within yourself.

i'd like to offer a different perspective.

i honestly believe you need therapy in sorting out your inability to make decisions.

when was it? maybe a year or more ago?

you posted a thread in an's breakroom, about a personal issue in your life.

and again, it involved making a decision betw 2 very important people in your life.

it bothered me to think of the others that would be hurt by your situation.

what i'm trying to say, is your indecisiveness does affect others.

and for that alone, i would hope you try and get to the bottom of this.

only then, will you truly be able to feel more stabilized and handle your life accordingly.

8 jobs in a year is incredibly extreme.

please do something for yourself and get the professional assistance you need.

the rest will fall into place afterwards.:)

leslie

Love,

I believe that you are an anomaly. Anomaly-types go their own way and somehow it works out.

I remember when you said something similar to that you thought that getting a job offer was easy, that you don't have difficulty in getting jobs. Hey, that's cool. I know a lot of people that wish they had that going for them. However, I wonder if the places you go to are the bottom of the barrel - this is not to say that a whole lot of what's out there right now is the worst of the worst, people leave, and they have an opening... I am sure you've wondered of this.

I guess like others have said, use your interviewing power on better stuff then. Keep one job that you are OK with, and go for the better stuff since you seem to be a interview winner. You probably are quite good at knowing what bad is. You gotta have developed a sniffer for that and now know what is "no way, no how".

Specializes in Cardiac.

From someone that hires nurses on a fairly regular basis, I will tell you that if I see a resume with that many jobs listed in such a short time - I won't waste my time on even interviewing. When I hire someone I would like it to be someone that will 1) make it through orientation and 2) Be part of our team for at least a year or two (we all know things come up) that will make my time orienting this person worth it. I would not want to hire someone that literally makes more mork for the team (with training, etc) than if we were just short a staff member.

My 2 cents....

Specializes in LTC.

Thanks everyone for the replies !! To Leslie- You are also correct. I have always had a hard time making decisions and when I do it seems to be the bad ones. I have gotten my personal life together and now trying to get my career together. For those who are worried about my resume, I do not list all my jobs on there. I have four jobs listed since 2007. Update:I have to say I have started to make changes already. I got offered two jobs this week and planned on working them both. However, after much thought I made a decision to accept one and not the other. I knew that if I accepted the other position I may end up leaving upon receiving my RN license. I plan to keep my current part-time and prn job for as long as I can. I'm not applying to any more jobs for a while until I get my license. For now I'm staying put.

Everyone had good solid points. I admit I have a problem and I know I will do better.

Specializes in LTC.
Honey, I say this with affection, but you don't listen to advice. I clearly remember your thread fairly recently about calling in sick for orientation. I said flat out not to, that it would have negative repercussions. You did, and the DON fired you before you started.

You should know after your years as an aide that no one gives a rat's rear about anything personal - school, sick kids, that you're in traction after an MVI. No facility is going to juggle your schedule to suit your needs. Not a one.

You need a reality check.

Agreed and thanks for giving me a reality check. BTW- the fact that I called in sick did not get me fired, it was not being able to attend orientation as scheduled due to my school schedule, per my termination documentation. Never the less it was not a smart idea.

You admit that you have a problem, that is always step 1. You need not feel ashamed or angry at yourself, this is something which can be 'fixed'.

Do not be afraid to seek medical help outside of counseling. I am bi polar 2, and thanks to meds I have been stable for years. I will admit that prior to my stabilization I had difficulty with job stability, which is common with depression or BPD. I am not ashamed to admit these things because I understand that I need help to function at my maximum capacity. You may need some help to function at your maximum capability as well.

Specializes in Hospital Education Coordinator.

I believe you will have more opportunities and flexibility as an RN. Think of this period as being temporary.

I do not have a licence plate or bumper sticker which advertises my issues, lol, I keep my mental health issues private in my 'work life'. With that being said, I am VERY open anonymously because of the success and personal growth I have had thanks to treatment. I only share these things with my closest friends, and online anonymously when I feel like someone could use my experience.

Specializes in LTC.
You admit that you have a problem, that is always step 1. You need not feel ashamed or angry at yourself, this is something which can be 'fixed'.

Do not be afraid to seek medical help outside of counseling. I am bi polar 2, and thanks to meds I have been stable for years. I will admit that prior to my stabilization I had difficulty with job stability, which is common with depression or BPD. I am not ashamed to admit these things because I understand that I need help to function at my maximum capacity. You may need some help to function at your maximum capability as well.

Thanks. I had a big personal problem last year that I went to consueling ( spelling) and it helped me tremendously. I plan on going back for career advice.

get over the drama, too. figure out (with your counselor) a better way to get attention.

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