How to know if I would be a good nurse? Personality traits common among happy nurses
- 0Dec 5, '01 by Leigh MayfieldHow do I KNOW if I would be a good nurse. I am 39, considering a career change from being a homemaker and elem ed. teacher.
Are there common traits amont "happy" nurses? My personality is somewhat reserved (but friendly and loving people), detail oriented, merciful, not liking the "limelight", service oriented. I am not an extremely "high-energy" person, but enjoy a challenge. I like studying ( have a BS with high honors) and think I would enjoy the course work of nursing school. My mind is not oriented toward mechanical workings necessarily, and I wonder how much of that would be involved. Any thoughts on personalities that do well in nursing?
- 3Dec 5, '01 by wildtime88You did ask about character traits that are shared by happy and content nurses? In other words nurses who do not complain and will endure through thick and thin.
willingness to do anything they are told to do or assigned to them without objection
ability to work hard and long hours
ability to hold urine for long periods of time
ability to go without food
ability to make excuses
ability to always say it could be worse no matter how bad it gets
ability to run out of the area when a coworker complains about a problem
ability to feel bad when you are told it is your fault when in reality it is not
ability to become a martyr to save face and feel self important
ability to control the urges of wanting something that you do not make enough money to buy because of low pay when compared to your duties and responsibilities
ability to not b***h and complain
ability to face many of these things on a daily basis and be happy and content to keep coming back for more and be happy about it
These are just some of the character traits shared by good, happy nurses. Remember happy nurses do not have anything to complain about and thus have no reason to make waves. They live in a world of their own no matter what is actually going on around them.
It has also been implied by some nurses that you must have a calling in order to find true happiness in this profession in order to be truly happy. In some way this calling will give you the strength and resolve to accept the problems and allow you an excuse in which you can internalize the need to keep coming back for more punishment no matter how bad it gets.
Ask yourself, Do I have such a calling that is strong enough to endure for the rest of my life?
- 0Dec 5, '01 by OneChattyNurseI think that wildtime may have misinterpreted your post. From the traits you mentioned, I feel you have a good shot at nursing. I do agree it is hard work and the pay is not the greatest compared to other fields, BUT it can be very rewarding. There are many aspects of this field that are less than desirable...staff shortages, long hours, and mandatory overtime to name a few. However, if you feel strongly about becoming a nurse, I think you should go for it!!!
One way you can get a better idea is to go to a college and take one of those tests that asks you a bunch of questions and then rates the professions/occupations that would suit you based on your answers. This is not a "fail-safe" method od choosing a career, but might give you some insight! There might even be a test like that on the internet.
I have to admit that I sometimes get EXTREMELY frustrated with my job, but overall I am very happy to be a nurse!
- 0Dec 6, '01 by RNforLongTimeI agree with Julie,RN a sense of humor is a definite must. I think that if I hadn't been able to laugh, I'd have quit this job a long time ago.
From what you have mentioned, I think that you have the qualities to make a wonderful nurse! Good luck and keep us posted!
- 0Dec 6, '01 by SteelefergWildtime obviously has no idea what the definition of apathy is: it is the total lack of feeling or emotion; lack of interest or concern; INDIFFERENCE.
Bad day or not apathy is not a good trait for any profession and certainly not anythig involving nursing or the medical world. In Nursing, in particular, it is necessary to have a COMPLETE LACK OF APATHY OR INDIFFERENCE. If that is the first trait listed Wildtime lists he/she is in the wrong field.
Empathy and compassion, a sense of humor and the ability to deal with a high level of stress are most important. (I also made a mid-life career change into Nursing and though I am, as yet still a student , at the age of 41, in pusuit of a BSN, there is more reward in the profession of Nursing than anything I've done in the last 20 yrs.)
- 4Dec 6, '01 by wildtime88Steeleferg,
I am fully aware of what apathy means, lack of concern.
Excuse me, but if you are a student then you have truly not experienced what it is truly like in this profession.
You can be happy to be a nurse, but not happy with the profession. You can be a happy nurse too who sees nothing wrong.
You can also have a concern for your patients and no concern for what is going on as far as working conditions.
This sounds hard to believe and a contradiction, but just wait, you will see it. You will see that the nurses who are the happiest are the ones who resemble Stefford(sp) wives in almost all the cases.
When you actually step out of the idealogical student world of nursing and into reality, look around and see who are the happy nurses and remember the character traits I listed.
If you think that people like me should not be in nursing, then you might just change your mind when you see just how many nurses are like me. Especially when you realize how many patients you will have on your hands, if we all leave.
Remember the old saying that ignorance is bliss. It is the unhappy nurses who are looking and pushing for change in the profession. The so called happy nurses would not change a thing. Heaven help you and the profession as a whole if all that stay are the happy nurses.
I know my words must seem harsh when talking about such a noble profession in where some see a little personal suffering as a good thing to prove their self worth, but after you get a chance to personally suffer for a while then you might just catch my drift.Last edit by wildtime88 on Dec 6, '01
- 2Dec 6, '01 by wildtime88Leigh Mayfield
<Are there common traits amont "happy" nurses?>
I am sorry you did not like my answers to your question. If I would have known that you were looking for the soft sell recruitment type of answers which then to step around the reality of nursing, then I would have been all to happy to accommodate you.
I will be this honest with you though. You said you are not a high energy type of person. Now if you meant that literally and not just in the sense of personality type, then you are going into the wrong field.
Nursing is a field that requires a lot of energy in the form of self motivation as well as the energy to act quickly and for long periods of time. There are very few jobs available to a new nurse where you can sit back at a desk and watch the world pass by. In many of the aspects of nursing it truly does require a self starter to initiate things. You might have orders to follow but many times they are just a goal that you have to achieve on your own by initiating the steps and then following them personally to their completion. There is a lot of hands on and not just sitting back making sure someone else does it.
As far as limelight goes if this means being the center of attention then you will be in the lime light in that you will be in the center of just about everything. You will be responsible for a lot and will be held personally and legally responsible for things that our under your control and many things that are not. You will be the one who manages your patient if you choose to become an RN. If you choose to be an LPN then there will be a lot of multi tasking that you will have to perform and you will be personally accountable for the completion of those tasks. LPNs have to be self starters too.
Now would you like me to give you the soft sell recruitment pitch or do you want the whole truth?