Hospice Career

I have been a Nurse for 27 years. That seems like so many years, especially if you are a new graduate nurse. Yet, for me, the years have passed very fast. Many times I have wondered how my nursing career could have been different. You see, I am one of those nurses who could never seem to find my niche in the many areas available to us in the profession. In fact, when I was in nursing school, I wasn't even aware of all the areas available. I thought you went to nursing school, graduated and went to work in a hospital...on a medical/surgical floor at that. Nurses Announcements Archive Article

Hospice Career

In the last year however, I did find my niche. Actually, it found me. You see, I believe in God and His Hand in my life. He actually opened a door for me that I would never have opened myself. In fact, I was faced with the door before, and I did not open it.

My new found home in nursing is Hospice. There is a local, nonprofit Hospice agency in the small town I live in. Several times throughout my nursing career I would go by and pick up an application, but never completed it. Then one day last April, I was leaving the hospital, after sitting with my father-in-law for several months while he was a patient. Going down the stairs, the door opened in the hall at a small office where just a few nursing staff worked. My curiosity got the best of me, so I stopped and questioned them as to just what they did.

The staff explained they worked for Hospice and that this was a small inpatient unit. I had no real idea of what Hospice was or what it meant. But I thought, I might be able to do this! As I left the building, I was met by someone I worked with years earlier and not aware of whom she was, we talked and when she asked me what I was doing, I told her I was on my way to apply for a job at this Inpatient Hospice facility. I still was not aware that the person I was talking to was the Executive Director of the Hospice Agency. Within days I found myself being hired as the Director of the Inpatient Facility.

During my interview with the Clinical Director, the last thing I told her was that I did not like working with dead people. She of course was taken aback and stated that Hospice was in the business of dealing with death and dying and that the nurse was the person who pronounced the deceased. I explained to her that in all my years of nursing I had never taken care of a deceased body by doing postmortem care. I always let the nurse aid do the care. I didn't even want to go back into the deceased room when they had been pronounced.

To my surprise, I have come to view death as a part of living. Giving care to someone who is in the last stages of their lives has become one of my greatest blessings. To be able to share this most intimate time in one's life and the life of the family has become viewed, by me, as a privilege. To be there, perhaps holding a dying patients' hand or their love ones' hand, I feel is the last thing I can do for this person as they leave this life. Any fear or anxiety I may have had with death and dying has been totally alleviated. I don't even think of my position as being a job, but more so a ministry.

Hospice nursing is truly holistic in nature. We have a team of professionals who work closely together, trust each other, and value each others' expertise and opinions. Our team consists of nurse, nurse aid, social worker, chaplain, physician, bereavement coordinator, as well as the most important people, the patient and family. Each person is listened to, helps plan patient/family care, and come together when comfort and encouragement and just listening is needed.

You may think that working in Hospice will "weaken" your nursing skills. This is so far from the truth. Not only are our patients facing the end of life, but they also have many medical and physical conditions that continue to require intense nursing assessment, planning, care, and evaluation...just like any other nursing area of care. I have found that teaching is one of the most critical aspects of the nursing care. Teaching on dying and the changes to be expected to family is one of the most challenging areas. Families worry about patients being in pain, of starving and dehydrating when they begin to refuse nourishment. Teaching must be done quickly, repeated frequently, and done on levels that families are ready to hear and deal with.

If you want to really know that you made a difference in someone's life at the end of the day, that what you did mattered, that your very presence made a difference, then I challenge you to give Hospice a career chance.

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Specializes in Hospice.

Wonderful article! As a hospice nurse I find that I get much more from my patients than I ever give them. I teach, but often end up being the student. I can honestly say I love my job and can't imagine doing anything else.

Specializes in LTC, Psych, Hospice.

:twocents:Thank you for this wonderful article! I've been a hospice nurse for 8 years and have recently returned to LTC. I still see make 4 hospice visits a week. I'm back in school in earn my RN and it is hard to work hospice and be in school because of the many needs/wants my patients have. My agency (and myself) truly believe in continuity of care and except for the RN sup visits I don't want to have another LPN seeing my patients. They know and trust me and it isn't fair to have others make the visit because I have a class or test. Even though I dearly love my LTC residents hospice is were my heart is. I can hardly wait to finish so I can return to hospice full time.

Amen and Amen.... I, to, could not imagine myself at the bedside of a dying patient (voluntarily). It truly is an honor to be there for the moment one passes from this realm to the next.

I can remember in nursing school, most of the students wanted to be in the nursery, at the beginning of life. I found my calling in being involved in "end of life" care. Whether there is no one present other than myself and the patient, or in a room surrounded by family members. It is such a blessing to be there, to hold a hand, to reassure, to give comfort and care.

I will always remember being at the bedside of a young man, his family gathered round him. They asked me to sit with them for a bit. I sat at the bedside, from somewhere deep in my memory bank, I began to hum the old gospel song.. "oh come angel band, come and around me stand, oh bear me away on your snowy wings to my immortal home". I heard a rustle behind me, thinking someone came into the room, I turned. No one had entered (at least no one that could be seen). As I turned back to the patient, still holding his hand, my eyes met with those of his son *who was holding the other hand*.... "I think my Dad is gone".

The angel band had come for this precious soul.

I have sung to the patient, read scripture, whispered words of comfort. With each passing, I began to journal a memory story, and give it to the family. Humor, compassion.. trying to convey how this person touched so many lives. One of my favorite sayings.... "just when we grieve, and mourn the passing of this loved one, and say... oh no, they've gone, there is someone beyond the veil.... smiling and saying.. yay, here they come".

I will make my story short and sweet, Thank you for the beautiful Hospice Story from

WayneADN. I was always surrounded by medical family members, aged ones dying, young ones with perplexing illnesses. I had a son with water on the brain 28 years ago.

My life was then full of dead end jobs until I decided to take back my life and youth and be a licensed Patient Care Tech/ HHA and CNA at Hospice House /aka Heaven here in Florida. This has been the most rewarding career choice I ever dreamed of. My 2nd week here so far, {after other nursing home jobs; and caring for loved ones and others without licensure under the supervision of nurses or doctors for eldercare in their own homes.) I will be here as my career choice forever if possible until the last day of my life on earth. The support and teamwork found here is a work of art amazing and so smoothly worked out that I am impressed each day. I wake up and can not wait to get to work. I am a C N A but am treated as if I am as important as the doctors and nurses themselves, and we all treat our residents like royalty . VIP's since it is all about our patients, is it not? I was a lost wounded empty nest widow with so much love inside to give, I was tired of working hard for Sears, resturants, as a nanny , or odd jobs to pay my share of my expenses and keep my life going, so the day I applied at Hospice, and actually worked there, was the day that changed my own life forever so that I can truly make a difference in as many lives as possible to let peace begin with me, sowing seeds of love, compassionate care, enabling peace to begin on eath as a force to be reckoned with , in my lil old energized 40something's hardworking hands. Back rubs no problem!

Specializes in Hospice.

Wow!!! Where the heck do you work??? Sign me up

thank you so much for sharing this part of your life.

wouldn't it be great if each of us felt as passionate about our work, no matter what the job? i believe we all have that capacity, we just need to get out of our own way and follow our hearts and minds.

Yes, I've always thought I'd like Hospice but my friends, nurses included, kept telling me I was too "tenderhearted". I kept asking myself, "who else would you want at your bed when you're close to death than someone that is tenderhearted. Well, after being the caregiver of my friend during her last days, I knew God had shown me the way. I've been working with Hospice for 4 months now and I love it. I worked before with maternity and pediatrics, public health, my own business in nursing, and Hospice is by far the most rewarding role I've ever had in nursing. I suspect I'm here for life.:redpinkhe

Yes i do appreciate the time it took for you to write this article. let me tell you what a blessing this is for me. i have been searching for the answer about would my vocational skills go to waste? your article confirmed that i need to explore the field of "hospice". my background is a video producer who is always volunteering at hospital - comforting the elderly and the terminally sick. it lead me to ask questions about becoming an advocate for the sick and the elderly. as a mentor to the youth in my church i have motivated, encouraged and financially sponsored 8 -10 students who have acutally entered the nursing field. i never thought of becoming a nurse myself.

I am glad and so happy to know that after 26 years as an RN you, too, have found the hospice so rewarding. please pray for me because i am over 40 and am entering a new career. i am looking forward for combining all my gifts when i finnaly become a nurse.

congrats, again and thanks

I'm currently a prenursing student, and when I tell people I want to work with hospice patients, they look at me and ask "are you kidding me". Our family has used hospice, and I was amazed at how well the nurse was insync with our family and our needs. You look at hospice the same way I do, and I know now more than ever that is the field that I want to be in. Thanks for the encouragement!